TPJCatholic:
Hitetlen,
I disagree (no surpise, right).
The fact that God is in control of all things, and that bad things happen, makes a person of faith seek the reasons for why such things happen.
That is a legitimate question, and I am not afraid to go there, if you are also willing. But I have a humble request: please do not try to justify whatever we happen to talk about by the generic answer: “whatever God does is for our own good, even if we cannot understand its purpose”. That is a logical fallacy: you try to convince me that God can be called “good” or “loving” despite the problems I may bring up. The aforementioned generic answer would be circular reasoning.
The path you suggest is akin to the “doctor’s argument”: when someone (with limited knowledge) sees a doctor operating on a patient, he may assume that a horrible torture is taking place, when he simply does not understand the process. I am willing to consider your arguments, but you cannot simply refer to our ignorance. The fact that something looks like a torture is most probably a torture, unless one can prove that it is not. (The duck test

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Furthermore, I can already make an argument: even if we assume that whatever God does is for some greater good, that is not enough! You also have to substantiate that there is no better way (in our sense) to achieve the same result, despite God’s alleged omnipotence. (In other words: the world we live in today is the best possible world, even God cannot make it any better!)
To show what I mean, consider a doctor and a patient, who has been bitten by a poisonous snake. If there is no antidote available, the doctor can resort to an amputation to save the patient’s life. However, if there IS an antidote available, the amputation is not a legitimate solution, even if it DOES save the patient’s life.
And this is a very tough request on my part. Let me know if you are interested in exploring this problem.
TPJCatholic:
In that pursuit one begins to know God in a deeper way. Many people find God in the valley of their lives, very few people find Him at the peaks.
That is probably quite true, but as usual, the simplest explanation (Occam’s razor) suggest that during emotional distress one may easily mistake his own confused state of mind to some divine intervention.
TPJCatholic:
God loves us so much that He never interferes with our gift of being able to freely choose. Because of this many bad things happen, yet God does not erase free will just because people suffer. It is one of His greatest gifts because He does not want a bunch of robotic humans that are forced to come to Him, He wants us to freely choose Him.
That is another hairy problem. I don’t agree that “free will” is of utmost relevance, and even if it is, some people define it incorrectly. But I am willing to explore. However, let’s not bite off too much at the same time.