As a Catholic, how can you justify a married couple not using birth control this day in age? Let’s say you have a couple that cannot afford more than one child but birth control is free. The woman can’t take birth control because it is against the catholic church, so she ends up having 4 or 12 children they cannot afford. How is it fair to bring children in to this world that you can’t pay for? The end result is the children having a less than good standard of living and the parents are constantly working and stressed so they can’t pay for them. Yes, you can practice safe sex (without condoms bc that is also against catholic teaching) by planning it out and avoiding the week of ovulation, however, studies have shown that this does not work 100% of the time and women can still get pregnant when they are not ovulating and while they are menstruating.
The obvious reason why the Catholic church is against birth control and condoms for married couples is because by using them, they are not procreating soldiers for God, however, when these rules are primitive and apply to a much different world. Back in the day, the population was not any where near its current levels and standards of living were significantly cheaper and lower. Today, you can’t make a bunch a children and expect them to work on your farm. You have to send them to school if you want them to have a decent lifestyle, and I think we all know children cost A LOT of money. The average-income parent in America will end up spending roughly $200k from birth to age 21 on their children–and this is an average income family (meaning parents only make about $35k a year).