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Melchior_1
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My wife has a medical condition/disability which makes raising children difficult, she has already had two breakdowns (both of which almost leading to her death) in two years. There are times I need to work full-time, take care of her, and take care of my two year old son. All while having the body of a 65 year old man (according to our family doctor) and having my own mental illness issues. I already can’t keep up with the boy sometimes. Plus there’s the money issue.What does that even mean, “conscience in deciding the size of families?” Example?
We do want more children, we’d like three or four or however many God would give us. But based on what I said above, it would not be in good conscience for us to have another child right now. It would cause my wife to slide further, and simply put I have a hard enough time keeping things together sometimes.
What Pope Paul VI is saying is that my wife and I can use our conscience and if the situation does not improve we can continue with our family of three. One can do this naturally and inline with Church teaching.
What happened, as what was mentioned before, people took what he first said and twisted it around. Paul VI perhaps didn’t think people would need further instruction on the matter. But, like so many other times (otherwise we wouldn’t need numerous councils to explain and re-explain things, we’d only have one creed), it turns out people did need more instruction. That’s where HV comes in.