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And where are these hadiths from? I mean what source, who collected them, etc. There are other hadiths I could easily cite (and from sahih hadith sources) which do not fit well with them.
Whoever hurts a dhimmi, hurts me. And whoever hurts me, he annoys God."** (Bukhari)**
“Beware! On the Day of Judgment, I shall myself be the complainant against him who wrongs a dhimmi, or lays on him a responsibility greater than he can bear, or deprives him of anything that belongs to him.”
(Al-Mawardi)
and i will respond to you according the hadeeth you cited
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah’s Apostle said, “May Allah’s curse be on the Jews for they built the places of worship at the graves of their Prophets.” [Sahih Bukhari Volume 1, Book 8, Number 428]
well , this hadeeth have nothing to do with the ones i cited
i was talking about teaching of islam regarding to our relation with nonmuslims citizen , i’m not talking about judgment of God to them in hearafter
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ismail ibn Abi Hakim that he heard Umar ibn Abd al-Aziz say, “One of the last things that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said was, ‘May Allah fight the Jews and the Christians. They took the graves of their Prophets as places of prostration . Two deens shall not co-exist in the land of the Arabs.’” [Malik Muwatta Book 45, Number 45.5.17; emphasis mine]
the same one
Narrated 'Abdullah:
Allah’s Apostle said, “The blood of a Muslim who confesses that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and that I am His Apostle, cannot be shed except in three cases: In Qisas for murder, a married person who commits illegal sexual intercourse and the one who reverts from Islam (apostate) and leaves the Muslims.” [Sahih Bukhari Volume 9, Book 83, Number 17; emphasis mine]
this hadeeth talking about muslims , it has nothing to do with the ones i cited either
as for i’m talking about our relation with citizen nonmuslims , not about the law’s punishment
Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
The Prophet cursed effeminate men (those men who are in the similitude (assume the manners of women) and those women who assume the manners of men, and he said, “Turn them out of your houses .” The Prophet turned out such-and-such man, and 'Umar turned out such-and-such woman. [ibid Volume 7, Book 72, Number 774]
it have nothing to do with what i was talking about either , it’s talking about what muslims should to avoid according to islam
curse refere to reaction of God in judgment day , not about our behaviour toward them in this life
Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: Do not greet the Jews and the Christians before they greet you and when you meet any one of them on the roads force him to go to the narrowest part of it. [Sahih Muslim Book 026, Number 5389]
This hadith has been narrated on the authority of Suhail with the same chain of transmitters but with a slight variation of wording. The hadith transmitted on the authority of Waki’, the words are
'When you meet the Jews." And in the hadith transmitted on the authority of Shu’ba, the words are:
'When you meet the People of the Book." And in the hadith transmitted on the authority of Jarir the words are:"
When you meet them," but none amongst the polytheists has been mentioned explicitly by name.
but why ?
Narrated 'Aisha:
The Jews used to greet the Prophet by saying, "As-Samu 'Alaika (i.e., death be upon you), so I understood what they said, and I said to them, “As-Samu 'alaikum wal-la’na (i.e. Death and Allah’s Curse be upon you).” The Prophet said, "Be gentle and calm, O 'Aisha, as Allah likes gentleness in all affairs.
" I said, “O Allah’s Prophet! Didn’t you hear what they said?”
He said, “Didn’t you hear me answering them back by saying, 'Alaikum (i.e., the same be upon you)?”
Volume 9, Book 84, Number 60:
Narrated Anas bin Malik:
A Jew passed by Allah’s Apostle and said, “As-Samu 'Alaika.” Allah’s Apostle said in reply, "We 'Alaika./ and upon you " Allah’s Apostle then said to his companions, “Do you know what he (the Jew) has said? He said, 'As-Samu ‘Alaika./ death upon you’” They said, “O Allah’s Apostle! Shall we kill him?” The Prophet, said, “No. When the people of the Book greet you, say: 'Wa ‘Alaikum / and upon you .’”
al slam is very near in hearing to al sam
The Prophet most likely gave the commands to greet everybody at first and then when the problem of Jews coming along saying ‘death upon you’, the Prophet would have had to reverse his judgment.
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah’s Apostle said, “If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning.” [Sahih Bukhari Volume 4, Book 54, Number 460]
keep us in our point , we are talking about our relation with nonmuslims . we can discuss the issue of marriage in islam in other thread