I choose to eat of the apple.
You’d probably agree that, while freedom is good, not every way in which a human may choose to
exercise that freedom is good. Evil, in fact, doing harm to neighbor, often results from wrong choices generally motivated by selfishness, ego, pride, etc. Evil choices/sin are an abuse of our freedom.
Now touching a hot stove can be good, not because the pain is good but because the lesson-to not touch it again-is good. God knew that Adam would touch the stove, would eat of the fruit, and had planned for that from the beginning. So from the larger perspective God made His world “in a state of journeying to perfection”, as the Church teaches. And this is how human perfection is attained according to the catechism:
1731 Freedom is the power, rooted in reason and will, to act or not to act, to do this or that, and so to perform deliberate actions on one’s own responsibility. By free will one shapes one’s own life. Human freedom is a force for growth and maturity in truth and goodness; it attains its perfection when directed toward God, our beatitude.
1732 As long as freedom has not bound itself definitively to its ultimate good which is God, there is the possibility of choosing between good and evil , and thus of growing in perfection or of failing and sinning. This freedom characterizes properly human acts. It is the basis of praise or blame, merit or reproach.
So Adam already possessed free will which is what made his choice possible. He had the option to
choose God so to speak, by heeding Him, or to choose to be unallied with Him, by disobedience. He could freely choose either. He chose to be his
own god,
preferring himself to God as the catechism also teaches. He had not yet gained the wisdom to be bound to God. The point is that man has limitations, and must come to recognize them and the first way that this is done is by
knowing God, that He exists first of all and that we owe Him our obedience and subjugation. That’s what we’re here to learn, along with the means to
find that obedience within us, the right and authentic means. Man was made for communion with God. Otherwise we’re lost, hopeless, even if we don’t realize that all at once as we experiment with a life in a relatively godless world. God is present to the extent that He’s present
in us. And so that’s why we’re here to learn whether or not Adam’s choice was right, because he effectively extricated God from the direct relationship with man that we were meant for.
So was touching the hot stove good? Yes, to the extent that we learn from it. Man did not become more free or better in some manner with his sin; rather he came to know evil, by touching it directly, by experiencing it, the first evil being the very sin consisting of opposition to God that shifted Adam into a whole new state of being. Good is known by contrast; it isn’t identifiable until evil is known.
Anyway, finding and going back to God is a
good journey, even as it’s a struggle, and one that involves the
proper use of our freedom.