Thanks that was a great read. For the most part, it does gel with the way I see people in the world.
Excellent, I’m glad you got something out of it. The MacMurray book was recommended to me by two religious leaders that I greatly respect (on separate occasions), so I had to get a hold of it. I got a lot out of it myself. He really gives expression to what a lot of us suspect already, I think, about “personhood.”
doesn’t seem to give as much credit to reflection,
This is true. His work does try to be seminal and cohesive in itself, but by his own admission, it is also reactive to the Modern Age’s obsession with “self,” beginning with Descartes’
cogito. So he sees humans in action and in community as most basic, and thought as derivative and secondary.
doesn’t give much thought to a woman’s progeny prior to birth. Which seems to me to be a lost opportunity to further drive home his thesis. If anything, MacMurray’s arguments would only further the personhood of a fetus, or even an embryo, just by virtue of the fact that MacMurray’s view of ‘personhood’ wouldn’t be possible without it. That is to say, women do a great deal of preparing for a family way before they are even capable of producing one. So the personhood of her progeny would be established before she even conceives.
That’s a very interesting take. I hadn’t thought of it like that, but there is undoubtedly something to this—the mother begins this extension of herself into the child and the communion that will exist between them much prior to birth. Quite right. But would there be any implications in the event where a mother has rejected this community of persons, like in the case of a surprise pregnancy where the mother had no intention of bringing a child into the world?
MacMurray writes that a baby “is, in fact, ‘adapted’, so to speak paradoxically, to being unadapted, ‘adapted’ to a complete dependence upon an adult human being. He is made to be cared for. He is born into a love relationship which is inherently personal. …he depends for his existence, that is to say, upon intelligent understanding, upon rational foresight” [of “the mother”] (
Persons In Relation, p. 48)
Thoughts?