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So how is it that anyone even knows this man is a homosexual?Pretty bold statement, considering the fact that you don’t actually know this man.
So how is it that anyone even knows this man is a homosexual?Pretty bold statement, considering the fact that you don’t actually know this man.
“[A]ny hint of scandal”? A married couple who did not have a child in the last year and so might possibly be using artificial contraception are giving a “hint of scandal”. Is this church also dropping all married altar servers who might be giving scandalous hints by not having children?And I would remind you that church documents are very specific in the GIRM and will not allow any hint of scandal, which the Church considers to be a GRAVE offense, regarding lay ministry.
And it does.That is a very strict standard, one which would disqualify a great many people, not just celibate homosexuals.
rossum
And it does.rossum;5475197 said:"[A]
ny hint of scandal"? A married couple who did not have a child in the last year and so might possibly be using artificial contraception are giving a “hint of scandal”. Is this church also dropping all married altar servers who might be giving scandalous hints by not having children?
That is a very strict standard, one which would disqualify a great many people, not just celibate homosexuals.
If we are to take Tigg’s statement in post #104 about “any hint of a scandal” seriously then yes. Failure to have children may indicate the use of articifial birth control and hence can be construed as a “hint of a scandal”.Really?
Married persons are disqualified from serving because they haven’t had a child in the past year?
Except that, even if it were 100% sure that they were using contraception it, sadly, wouldn’t be scandal to most Catholics. The situation in the case we are talking about would probably not be scandal to many Catholics and neither would the situation of a common-law couple be scandal either. Which says a lot about the world we live in today.If we are to take Tigg’s statement in post #104 about “any hint of a scandal” seriously then yes. Failure to have children may indicate the use of articifial birth control and hence can be construed as a “hint of a scandal”.
rossum
A married couple without childen is not scandalous. They may have medical problems, or be using NFP. There is nothing to draw scandal from.“[A]ny hint of scandal”? A married couple who did not have a child in the last year and so might possibly be using artificial contraception are giving a “hint of scandal”. Is this church also dropping all married altar servers who might be giving scandalous hints by not having children?
That is a very strict standard, one which would disqualify a great many people, not just celibate homosexuals.
rossum
The wording was not “scandal” but “hint of scandal”. In this case the man in question says he is celibate, and I have seen no evidence to contradict that. A celibate homosexual is not scandalous but can be seen as having a “hint of scandal”. Similarly a married couple who do not regularly have children may well be within church rules, but still be giving a “hint of scandal”.A married couple without childen is not scandalous. They may have medical problems, or be using NFP. There is nothing to draw scandal from.
The scandal here is that he lives with another gay man. A catholic man and woman can’t be roomates, friends or chaste or whatever, it would be scandalous.The wording was not “scandal” but “hint of scandal”. In this case the man in question says he is celibate, and I have seen no evidence to contradict that. A celibate homosexual is not scandalous but can be seen as having a “hint of scandal”. Similarly a married couple who do not regularly have children may well be within church rules, but still be giving a “hint of scandal”.
My point is that the “hint” part is dependent on how other people see things and not on the actions of the person(s) in question. I do not think that is a very fair position to take. Hence my example of a married couple who do not have children regularly.
rossum
The problem with the 2 people in the lawsuit is that they present themselves as a couple. That fact alone, regardless of their lack of sex, is enough to be scandalous.The wording was not “scandal” but “hint of scandal”. In this case the man in question says he is celibate, and I have seen no evidence to contradict that. A celibate homosexual is not scandalous but can be seen as having a “hint of scandal”. Similarly a married couple who do not regularly have children may well be within church rules, but still be giving a “hint of scandal”.
My point is that the “hint” part is dependent on how other people see things and not on the actions of the person(s) in question. I do not think that is a very fair position to take. Hence my example of a married couple who do not have children regularly.
rossum
really? Do you actually understand so little about human reproduction that you would believe this? By your standards I should have 40 children now.“[A]ny hint of scandal”? A married couple who did not have a child in the last year and so might possibly be using artificial contraception are giving a “hint of scandal”. Is this church also dropping all married altar servers who might be giving scandalous hints by not having children?
That is a very strict standard, one which would disqualify a great many people, not just celibate homosexuals.
rossum
But, in your case there is no “hint” on scandal. Being married, with or without children, is not scandalous.The wording was not “scandal” but “hint of scandal”.
He lives with another gay male. That can be a problem regardless of what they are or are not doing.In this case the man in question says he is celibate, and I have seen no evidence to contradict that.
No, that is not true. It is not only about personal rectitude but about public perception. There is no scandal in being married.A celibate homosexual is not scandalous but can be seen as having a “hint of scandal”. Similarly a married couple who do not regularly have children may well be within church rules, but still be giving a “hint of scandal”.
Sorry, but that simply does not make sense. It is not about any person conjuring up some notion in his/her mind about anything in general. It is about the objective fact two “gay” males are living together and one wanting to be an altar server. That situation is different from a married couple.My point is that the “hint” part is dependent on how other people see things and not on the actions of the person(s) in question. I do not think that is a very fair position to take. Hence my example of a married couple who do not have children regularly.
It is about how others see things, in this case the 12 complainants first. But there are others who are the primary worry of the 12. I have followed this case a little, and in the first article I read about it, Corcoran himself says Bishop De Angelis offered him a Scripture quotation to meditate on. It comes from 1 Corinthians Chapter 8. Actually, the entire chapter is necessary to get the full context.My point is that the “hint” part is dependent on how other people see things and not on the actions of the person(s) in question. I do not think that is a very fair position to take. Hence my example of a married couple who do not have children regularly.
rossum
Every Catholic is held to standards of appropriate behavior by God Himself and those who are called and chosen for more distinguished and visible service are held to a higher standard for they do act and teach ’in the name of the Church’.
Using artificial birth control is scandalous for a Catholic couple. Not having enough children is enough to “hint” at artificial birth control and hence is a “hint of scandal”.But, in your case there is no “hint” on scandal. Being married, with or without children, is not scandalous.
My point exactly. This man has no real evidence of actual scandal against him - he has said that he is in a celibate relationship. Has any evidence been produced by the twelve accusers to counteract this or does the entire case against him rest on “guesses”.You could easily say any person you see is provoking scandal based on nothing but silly guesses.
Why? Would it be better if he lived with a lesbian?He lives with another gay male. That can be a problem regardless of what they are or are not doing.
But there is scandal in the public perception of the use of artificial contraception.It is not only about personal rectitude but about public perception. There is no scandal in being married.
Why? A celibate gay male has a right to be treated as other people; if the mere perception of scandal is enough to disqualify him then a great many other altar servers could also be disqualified.Sorry, but that simply does not make sense. It is not about any person conjuring up some notion in his/her mind about anything in general. It is about the objective fact two “gay” males are living together and one wanting to be an altar server. That situation is different from a married couple.
Church rules are designed to help bring the people to heaven. They aren’t about individual rights, but about saving souls.Why? A celibate gay male has a right to be treated as other people; if the mere perception of scandal is enough to disqualify him then a great many other altar servers could also be disqualified.
The Church has rules, is it applying its own rules fairly in this case?
Here’s a thought, lets consult the Catholic Church’s 2000 years of theological scholarship and precident on this one. You have no arguement. a) its clear this man shouldnt have been altar serving as he has no respect for the authority of the church (which is at the complete dicresion of the bishop either way) and b) its none of the governments business . Period.The Church has rules, is it applying its own rules fairly in this case?
rossum