No. What’s easy is avoiding the question by making presumptions that someone is “moralizing from afar” and is far removed from that position.
That’s why we have moral standards that are higher than our own foolish emotionalism.
The facts of the case (that the medical staff stopped and consulted with management) made it clear that this was not a split-second life-and-death decision. If the patient wanted care outside the scope of ethical Catholic medicine Banner Good Samaritan Hospital is literally 5 minutes down the street and they have no such compunctions.
Painful? Certainly. It is difficult to refuse to do evil when that decision leads to suffering for ourselves and our loved ones. It is
not difficult to tell right from wrong (if one is acting as an authentic agent of Catholic teaching like St. Joseph’s Hospital was supposed to be) when the Church teaching is clearly laid out.
The difficult part is rejecting the temptation of sin and embracing the cross.
And let me emphasize that my point of contention is with the hospital, not the patient. The patient was vulnerable and certainly scandalized by the hospital’s failure to keep to authentic Catholic moral teachings.