I know exactly which website you’re talking about, Karen. I got banned there for participating in the threads on birth control and NFP…the management doesn’t like to be told that they are wrong. The threads were butchered to the point that the original intent of the different posts relating to birth control/the Pill/NFP were all merged into one big anti-NFP party.
I was especially outraged by the line of argument that “NFP causes abortions, because NFP is so unreliable that that when women conceive while using NFP by following the Church’s teachings, they often go get abortions.” And you posted the fact that apparently the possibility of very early, Pill-induced miscarriages are not, according to them, “true abortions”.
I believe BHM was the one who made the clear argument that since there are doctors on both sides of the issue of whether the Pill causes early abortions, a sincere pro-life person should err on the side of caution and avoid risking harming their newly-conceived children through their chosen birth control method. This is the case even apart from discussing contraception vs. NFP, and it is demanded by a consistent pro-life ethic which regards human life as sacred from
conception until natural death.
I believe that the reason most pro-choice websites say that there is no risk of abortion from using the Pill or Plan B is because they define pregnancy differently. They/the medical establishment consider pregnancy as beginning at implantation. But pro-lifers do not believe that life begins with pregnancy, but at conception. A mechanism which prevents a newly-conceived child from implanting in its mother’s womb is a chemical abortifacient–that’s just the honest truth.
Whether the Pill functions in this way is apparently an open question, but as the drug companies themselves state that it can work in this way, we should at least assume that it is a minimal risk. Even a .0001% risk is far too high when human life is on the line.