Thank you to all my friends here at the forum for your prayers. My mother is doing better. She will have surgery as soon as the swelling goes down in her leg to repair the broken bones. They are going to have to put a plate in below the knee to help heal the break. They figure it will four months before she will be able to put most of her weight on it, but I am so thankful that it wasn’t anything more. She still is running the risk of infection and a few other things, but we are hopeful.
My husband, John, kept in touch with us to keep updated on her condition. He also asked if I had told my parents about what was going on with us and I said no. He then said it was up to me if I wanted to tell them. They already had figured something was going on and weren’t surprised at the news. John thought I told them everything including about the other woman but I told him I hadn’t, I didn’t want them to hate him, my father thinks of him as a son. I then asked him if he would wait until after Christmas to proceed with the papers because I didn’t want a gloomy Christmas, everyone still loves us, they just want us to be happy and to sort this out on our own. He did not give me an answer, but I think he will wait and I pray that during this time God will guide me to some kind of peace whether it be with John or being on my own. I still love the man very much and still have hope and faith that we will reconcile. Our families have been very supportive and want what is best for us. I don’t think John believes that because he has not forgiven himself for what he has done and I think that is why he lashed out at me because he feels that his family will feel differently towards him and not love him anymore which is not true. I pray that John will let God help him and that he will continue to be with us during these difficult times inn our lives. Thank you again for your prayers for my mother, they mean so much to her and to my family. May God Bless You!
