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Jaroslaw
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Well, unfortunately I don’t have an encyclopedic memory - but in the most general terms, marriage has been many things over the course of many centuries and many cultures, childbearing being only one, even if the most important. I guess I was assuming since this was the great ‘Gay’ debate page, we were moving into the future. Marriage in our society doesn’t require fertility of the couples nor does it require fertile couples to have children. Marriage is for love, financial stability, medical power of attorney, inheritance and a host of other benefits which can easily be demonstrated to apply to Gay couples as well.
I’ve already answered #2 above.
Re: discrimination - relating your examples to the topic at hand, ALL 17 year olds, Gay, Straight, any race, any gender, can enter the military and yet cannot vote. So it isn’t the same kind of discrimination. Affirmative action isn’t precisely discrimination as I understand it, in any event, it seems to be more of an issue to discuss than one having a great effect. There are less African Americans in law school now than before AA!
Re; ‘healthy child’ - homosexuals do have children by various means (former regular marriages, adoption, artificial insemination etc.) I would ask are their children less worthy of the protections and benefits of marriage than children from traditional unions?
And what of the overwhelming percentages of people not in marriage at all, many of whom are having children?
This doesn’t really relate to the topic I admit, but it just not historically accurate (and I’m not saying you necessarily) when people put forth the idea marriage has always been this or that. For centuries, women were property of their husbands with no rigthts at all in marriage, etc.
Well, unfortunately I don’t have an encyclopedic memory - but in the most general terms, marriage has been many things over the course of many centuries and many cultures, childbearing being only one, even if the most important. I guess I was assuming since this was the great ‘Gay’ debate page, we were moving into the future. Marriage in our society doesn’t require fertility of the couples nor does it require fertile couples to have children. Marriage is for love, financial stability, medical power of attorney, inheritance and a host of other benefits which can easily be demonstrated to apply to Gay couples as well.
I’ve already answered #2 above.
Re: discrimination - relating your examples to the topic at hand, ALL 17 year olds, Gay, Straight, any race, any gender, can enter the military and yet cannot vote. So it isn’t the same kind of discrimination. Affirmative action isn’t precisely discrimination as I understand it, in any event, it seems to be more of an issue to discuss than one having a great effect. There are less African Americans in law school now than before AA!
Re; ‘healthy child’ - homosexuals do have children by various means (former regular marriages, adoption, artificial insemination etc.) I would ask are their children less worthy of the protections and benefits of marriage than children from traditional unions?
And what of the overwhelming percentages of people not in marriage at all, many of whom are having children?
This doesn’t really relate to the topic I admit, but it just not historically accurate (and I’m not saying you necessarily) when people put forth the idea marriage has always been this or that. For centuries, women were property of their husbands with no rigthts at all in marriage, etc.