I’ll tell you what they sound like, but only off the board, because saying so on the board would probably get me banned…
Seriously, Catholic people…seriously…enough. Stop. We have enough problems with some of our hierarchy who make statements way out of left field regarding how we should or do think about you (H.E. Who-Shall-Not-Be-Named-But-Always-Seems-To-Put-His-Foot-In-His-Mouth-Very-Publically was very quickly reminded by his brothers that this is not the way we think, after stupidly saying, among other things, that Roman Catholics and Protestants cannot go to heaven :doh2
. We don’t need you confirming the worst suspicions that some people in our Church have about you. (NB: Except for some of the leaders who have had dialogues with the RCC and the newest generations of the diaspora who are often educated in RC schools, most Copts know nothing about the RCC; when I first attended liturgy, I spent a good portion of the Agape meal afterwards explaining to the very well-intentioned but obviously misinformed laity that RCs do not in fact worship St. Mary.)
Put plainly and hopefully appreciated as a series of declarative statements of fact (i.e., I am not in the arguing business when it comes to m own faith, so save it for someone else; the question was asked what Coptic Orthodox people feel, not what Roman Catholics think they can salvage or smooth over, so please consider that in any response should there be one), no Coptic person who is committed to and knowledgeable about his Orthodox faith and Church will ever become any type of Catholic anything, unless Rome changes its ways and becomes Orthodox
as we recognize it. And, yes, I am saying that with full knowledge that we have people here who like to present themselves as being just that while also being in union with Rome. I’m telling you right now it doesn’t exist according to the Coptic Orthodox Church, which is most definitely the arbiter of what it means to be Coptic and Orthodox (who else would be?). No one is Orthodox in Union with Rome, and certainly no one is Coptic Orthodox in Union with Rome, and Coptic Catholics are recognized as a wound to the Church, not a bridge to anywhere that we want to go.
We love you guys - we really,* really* do (hopefully HH’s very public embrace and brotherliness toward Pope Francis is a good indication of where the heart of our Church is in desiring unity and love between Orthodox and Catholic Christians), but we will not become like you, even in an “Eastern” context (on a mass level, you have all the Coptic Catholics you’re ever going to have; individuals may make their own choices, of course, but the days of masses of Orthodox people converting to Catholicism are probably over). There is a reason why the first errant Bishop of the Copts to embrace union with Rome, Anba Athanasius of Jerusalem, later thought better of his decision and returned to Orthodoxy. We have no union of faith with you, and hence sacramental union is not a reality. As a friend from Church once put it over lunch when trying to understand exactly how we differ: “They’re Christians too, but they’re modern. Their church is a modern church. We are not modern. Our church is not a modern church.”