Well KSU I am not sure you are old enough to be this “whipper snapper’s” dad but I appreciate the compliment all the same thanks

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I’m basically a glass half-full person who sees any goodness in a world weakened by Original Sin as a cause of joy and leave the mistakes, errors, immaturities and veniality of both petitioners and judges to be rightly judged at death. I don’t expect institutions to be perfect and not abused by clever individuals because that level pof perfection is impossible in this life. It does not keep me awake at night because I am not trying to control the world but mostly only myself - and I don’t do the best of jobs even there some of the time. The rest I leave to God to advance and those who actual temporal responsibility it is to do so.
Anything more is just unhelpful chicken-lichen stuff and likely of the devil.
** I understand, except that the personal philosophy you describe appears to be more of a goal than a fact-- you prove by your posts in this and other threads that you really do deeply concern yourself about issues (undeniably the issue in this thread), and that you get as frustrated as the rest of us humans. But that’s something about which you should feel good. I wish you were a soldier in my camp.**
No, I don’t think I am wholly committed to that as explanation.
Jesus’s teaching is surely not black and white here for if it was we wouldn’t have Tribunals
Sure we would; Tribunals are hardly concerned only with adultery.
And again, if it were black and white we wouldn’t have the clear cultural evolution/adaption of Jesus’s alleged unchanging words on this topic in each of the Gospels…not the differing interpretations and practices re remarriage in the different Christian denominations all of which allegedly should not be confused or differ over these “black and white words” of Jesus on this topic.
**First, no Gospel degrades, dilutes or minimizes Matthew 19. The Pharisees are questioning Jesus about divorce, and Jesus corrects their practice by instructing them that that’s not what God wanted. That is black and white dogma about adultery–no exception. No Pope ever said otherwise, including Francis. If you want to prove your theory about the meaning of footnote 351, you will have to look elsewhere than Matthew 19.
Second, “the differing interpretations and practices re remarriage in the different Christian denominations” are in spite of the black and white words of Jesus on this topic, not because His words admit exceptions. The Church, including Pope Francis, would never support you on that.**
If Jesus didn’t want to overly traumatize those outside his inner circle and so spoke in parables to allow time for assimilation rather than confrontation then why cannot Pope Francis do the same?
*“With many such parables Jesus spoke the word to them, to the extent that they could understand. He did not say anything to them without a parable. But privately He explained all things to His own disciples.”
**You might have at least a weak point there if Matthew 19 was a parable. But it’s not–Jesus wanted to nail down His teaching to the Jews and us without possibility of exception or ambiguity. The fact that He did not use a parable clearly indicates that a little traumatizing was in order. ***
Of course [Pope Francis] knew what he wanted. He also knows that many true blue Catholics aren’t quite ready for it so he seems to speaks in riddles so far as they are concerned.
**Blue, I have to give you an A for effort. That the Pope was using a parable-like riddle so as to spare us deluded traditional Catholics a little traumatizing is a gambit I never heard articulated before. I agree with you one hundred percent, though, that he purposefully spoke in a riddle-like manner for some reason he considers worth it. Just as he did with the riddles in the beautiful Laudato Si’ and in Evangelii Gaudium. **