But the problem here is that under your view, any abusive father is a good father. Because when the father abuses, one may make the argument that ‘since he has not done anything to suspect him, his actions must be good and well thought out. Who are we to suspect our father’?
I think, in this case, it seems to indicate something just as wrong with the papal actions. He may not listen and he may think that what he is doing is right. But it does not reduce the fact that it is confusing to many Catholics.
The Pope’s decision may be final. But the concerns are valid and any Catholic is right in refusing to agree with his actions.
You can always disagree. What you can never do is ruin another person’s good name. This is where we have to be very careful. There are people who disagree with this so strongly that they have attacked the popes moral character. That’s unacceptable. That’s more than disagreement. That’s an assault.
I understand. I was a bit confused on how St. Paul said “no” and complained to St. Peter in acts then though when he was not eating with Jews. Is such disobedience also not allowed?
St. Paul was a secular priest, not a consecrated man. He was also a bishop; therefore, he was his own boss.
A religious man or woman is a consecrated person. He/she vows obedience unto death. There are no exceptions except one, when you are commanded to do something that the Church, not you, not your conscience, but the Church has named a sin. Then you must disobey. However, you may not separate yourself from your superior. You must remain with him and be subordinate to him in everything else.
In this case, the pope is not asking us to sin. There are people who are interpreting this as sin. However, as long as Peter himself says that it’s not a sin, then it’s not. The one area where Peter does not need to invoke infallibility is in the area of morals. It’s an automatic.
Let’s take this to Assisi. The pope says to the Franciscans that he wants them to host this event and to open their houses and facilities. They can’t say, “No, because we believe that this is a scandal.” That would be sufficient reason to get all kinds of punishments imposed on you. The only answer they can give is, “Yes, Your Holiness. What do you want us to do?”
While we’re on this topic, let me clarify something. There are a lot of reports about chickens and Buddahs at the first or second Assisi gathering. They are half truths. The whole truth was reported by the friars who actually live in Assisi.
The two incidents that people always put out there were the chicken and the Buddha. It sounds like a bad joke. The friars say that the monk did place the Buddha on top of a tabernacle, which was empty. The friars had taken the Blessed Sacrament away. However, when the friars saw it, they POLITELY explained to the monk what the tabernacle was for and the removed the Buddha and was very apologetic. The friar proceeded to find him a place to put it.
The chicken story is not as it is told. No events took place inside of the actual church of St. Clare. When you enter the building, the first space is the old church, which is now a huge gathering place. It’s been left standing, because it shelters the chapel of San Damiano. In front of the chapel of San Damiano, they often place a portable altar. It’s a full size piece of furniture, but you can pick it up and move it. It’s not always there.
The Holy Father’s people had asked for it, for some purpose. Don’t ask me, because I don’t know. Again, there was the incident with the chicken. The friars explained that this could not be done there. The person apologized and the situation was resolved.
My take on all of this is that there were people who made videos and took pictures of events, but published what supported their position on the event. People even said that the pope and the guests prayed inside the Basilica of St. Francis. IT NEVER HAPPENED.
When you walk up to the motherhouse, the building is huge. It has several parts that look as if it were all one, from the outside. One of those parts is a very large multipurpose room that is often used for chapters. It can hold up to about 2,000 people. The room was setup for the pope and his guests. The room is adjacent to the two churches, but it is not the church.
In fact, in the upper church, you can have a square dance. I wouldn’t suggest it.

The upper church has no tabernacle and is often used for plays and concerts. The tabernacle is in a chapel and there is a lower church where our Holy Father is buried. Nothing ever happens down there excpet mass.
I also don’t think the concern is not that the Pope doesn’t outwardly condemn Islam. The issue is that when the Pope could stay silent, he instead chooses to hold events where he would be put in to situations where he has to say half truths.
Have you ever heard the pope say a half-truth?
The problem is increased in that these half truths can cause scandal to the faithful.
Pope Benedict said in an interview that he understood the meaning of scandal and this always concerns him. I’m paraphrasing. If we go looking for the bad, we’re always going to find something. That’s a very dangerous way of thinking that we have to avoid. Too many people make it a habit to look for the bad.
They definitely didn’t go there to get together with the religious in those countries to pray together to their respective deities, right?
The missionaries who were martyred went as evangelists. The pope is not going to Assisi to evangelize. He has made this very clear.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF
