Because so many parishes were doing this against the rules anyway, I agree that this was most likely the best thing to do vs. banning it and making this into a bigger issue.
It really doesn’t bother me much, and I attend Holy Thursday Mass at the Cathedral each year where they only wash the feet of seminarians (which I hope continues - I think it’s awesome to see the Archbishop wash the feet of future priests).
However, I really want to ask: why do some feel this is a “win for women”? Besides a minority of women who personally felt slighted that their feet couldn’t be washed (note: I’m a guy and I would never ask to take part in that rite), what good does it do?
Will thousands or millions of non-practing Catholics now return to the Church? Will the feminists who claim the Church is anti-woman change their minds now that priests can wash the feet of women?
The washing of feet is a humbling experience. A straight priest washing the feet of straight men is very humbling and honestly can be almost considered an act of penance for some. It is not going to be an exciting occasion. Furthermore, I think in some parishes it’s almost like being an EMHC, where it’s the same people everytime.
On the flip side, a straight priest washing the feet of straight women COULD lead to impure thoughts. Husbands bathing their wives and washing their feet can be very romantic and arrousing. Ever watch movies set in the Middle Ages and see scenes where feet washing comes into play? You can feel the sexual tension in those scenes. Furthermore, for many women (not all) the feet are an erogenious zone.
NOTE: I’m am NOT critizing the Pope. But I’m just courious why many women felt slighted by this which has lead priests to break the tradition in the past and now leads the Pope to allow it?
