Pope Francis: Divorced Catholics who remarry are not 'excommunicated.'

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The church takes seriously the sin of scandal. Given that scandal by its nature involves a public action, what is the argument that Catholics should ignore scandalous behavior and not try to correct it when the scandal involves the improper reception of communion?

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It is the place of the priest and the bishop, not the layman.

It’s obnoxious and unbecoming of a layman to focus their attention of the worthiness of others receiving. They need to be looking inward- at their own soul.
 
It is the place of the priest and the bishop, not the layman.

It’s obnoxious and unbecoming of a layman to focus their attention of the worthiness of others receiving. They need to be looking inward- at their own soul.
You have distorted the situation. It is not a question of having to determine another’s worthiness to receive, but of responding to a situation where someone is receiving who is publicly unworthy. You already approved of someone going to a priest to report one type of abuse, what is so different about reporting others?

Ender
 
“Scandal” is a perception. Consider for a moment a divorced and remarried Catholic who has not obtained an annullment and who must remain in a Church pew while nearly everyone else goes forth to receive communion. To be clear, I have “no dog in this fight”, but it is something I cannot help but see while I stand in the line for communion. I cannot know why a person does not go forth to receive the Eucharist and make no judgment of it. There could be many reasons and perhaps the person is simply not a Catholic. I don’t know. But suppose a person were a divorced and remarried Catholic who had not obtained and annullment and, for what could be any number of reasons, were not in the state of mortal sin. How would they feel? Could it be the feeling they are the person scandalized? I think it could be. The perception of scandal is subjective.

In my comments on this issue, I have not once said a person in the state of mortal sin should receive the Eucharist. I agree this would be a grave sin. But, frankly, I do not believe this determination is anyone else’s judgment to make or anyone else’s business either.
 
You have distorted the situation. It is not a question of having to determine another’s worthiness to receive, but of responding to a situation where someone is receiving who is publicly unworthy. You already approved of someone going to a priest to report one type of abuse, what is so different about reporting others?

Ender
Because even the eucharistic ministers (layman) are delegated to watch that the host is not profaned or mistreated. This is much different than gauging (and that’s what it is) another’s worthiness to receive the Eucharist.

There are dioceses in which the Bishop has not spoken on whether Pro-Choice Catholic politicians may receive. Some bishops have spoken and some haven’t. This dynamic shows how some who may be seen as objectively unable to receive haven’t been publicly forbidden by their Bishops.

Layman don’t police the eucharist.
 
***the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery ***(CCC 2384)
These are not my words, they are those of the church. Nothing you cite in scripture can alter their obvious meaning. I have said nothing more than this, and I hardly think I need to defend accepting the position the church has proclaimed.

Ender
No, of course you don’t need to defend what the Church has proclaimed. However, as was earlier noted, the question is before the Synod of Bishops. It is thus fair to discuss the issue and to provide one’s views on it. Pope Francis has encouaged such a questioning and discussion.
 
“Scandal” is a perception. Consider for a moment a divorced and remarried Catholic who has not obtained an annullment and who must remain in a Church pew while nearly everyone else goes forth to receive communion. To be clear, I have “no dog in this fight”, but it is something I cannot help but see while I stand in the line for communion. I cannot know why a person does not go forth to receive the Eucharist and make no judgment of it. There could be many reasons and perhaps the person is simply not a Catholic. I don’t know. But suppose a person were a divorced and remarried Catholic who had not obtained and annullment and, for what could be any number of reasons, were not in the state of mortal sin. How would they feel? Could it be the feeling they are the person scandalized? I think it could be. The perception of scandal is subjective.
I didn’t receive Communion yesterday or today due to carrying a mortal sin. I didn’t feel scandalized or anything other than good and proper shame at my own failings.

If a person who’s remarried and committing adultery can receive, why not anybody else? Why should their sin be better than any other person’s sin?
 
***the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery ***(CCC 2384)
These are not my words, they are those of the church. Nothing you cite in scripture can alter their obvious meaning. I have said nothing more than this, and I hardly think I need to defend accepting the position the church has proclaimed.

Ender
No, you don’t need to defend what the Church has proclaimed. However, the question of whether divorced and remarried Catholics who have not obtained an annullment should be permitted to receive the Eucharist is before the Synod of Bishops. Pope Francis has encouraged Catholics to question and discuss the issue.

It would perhaps be better if you came to the realization that you are in essence attempting to suppress discussion of the issue in this and other forum threads by disputing virtually any comment that does provide a person’s view on the question. 🤷
 
I didn’t receive Communion yesterday or today due to carrying a mortal sin. I didn’t feel scandalized or anything other than good and proper shame at my own failings.

If a person who’s remarried and committing adultery can receive, why not anybody else? Why should their sin be better than any other person’s sin?
That’s fine, but can’t you see it is irrelevant? As it says in the comment (#360), a person who is divorced and remarried and has not received an annullment, but is not in the state of mortal sin, could possibly feel scandalized while remaining in the Church pew when nearly everyone else goes forth to receive communion.

That you did not feel scandalized is well and good. It was your perception. But who said a person in the state of mortal sin should receive the Eucharist? I assume you read the comment since you omitted its last paragraph. What is the point of these sorts of replies?
 
You are free to examine your own motives, but there is no justification for “questioning” the motives of others. “Questioning” them is nothing more than trying to make them appear base; it is an offense against their honor and reputation. It is to imply something harmful to them, and it is something we are forbidden to do.Respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them unjust injury. (CCC 2477)
Ender
Again, he spoke Church teaching to a group. Your application of this in the setting of a homily, speaking in general, would prohibit any but the most water-down, lovey dovey, Kum ba yah homilies.

Sorry, if you do not agree with the priest. Maybe you think that you should be more concerned about how others stand with God than your own standing. After all, that is the point you take issue with. No, this twist of saying the priest was judgmental when he called us not to be judgmental, well, I do not accept it.
 
Because even the eucharistic ministers (layman) are delegated to watch that the host is not profaned or mistreated. .
One would think they would at least use a paten or something to prevent the possibility of dropping the sacred species on the floor. Even priests drop it every now and then.
 
news.yahoo.com/pope-release-annulment-procedures-tuesday-122022876.html

Pope to release new annulment procedures Tuesday

*Francis has already called for annulments to be free, saying all Catholics have the right to justice from the church. He has also said the church should take into account that ignorance of the faith can be a reason to declare a marriage invalid.

Francis has previously quoted his predecessor as Buenos Aires archbishop as saying half of the marriages that are celebrated are essentially invalid because people enter into them not realizing that matrimony is a life-long commitment.

Some of the proposals for streamlining the process have included removing the mandatory appeal for each annulment granted. A key member of the study commission, Cardinal Francesco Coccopalmerio, has said he favors letting individual bishops make the decision rather than a full-fledged, three-member tribunal.*
 
But suppose a person were a divorced and remarried Catholic who had not obtained and annullment and, for what could be any number of reasons, were not in the state of mortal sin. How would they feel? Could it be the feeling they are the person scandalized?
No, they might be embarrassed or hurt or angry, but they cannot feel scandalized. The word does not have that meaning.
In my comments on this issue, I have not once said a person in the state of mortal sin should receive the Eucharist. I agree this would be a grave sin. But, frankly, I do not believe this determination is anyone else’s judgment to make or anyone else’s business either.
The church has made it the business of the Minister of Communion in certain cases. It is explicitly spelled out in canon law (Canon 915).

Ender
 
That’s fine, but can’t you see it is irrelevant? As it says in the comment (#360), a person who is divorced and remarried and has not received an annullment, but is not in the state of mortal sin, could possibly feel scandalized while remaining in the Church pew when nearly everyone else goes forth to receive communion.

That you did not feel scandalized is well and good. It was your perception. But who said a person in the state of mortal sin should receive the Eucharist? I assume you read the comment since you omitted its last paragraph. What is the point of these sorts of replies?
Except a person who’s divorced and remarried is in a state of mortal sin. Because Jesus said that situation equals adultery.
 
Because even the eucharistic ministers (layman) are delegated to watch that the host is not profaned or mistreated. This is much different than gauging (and that’s what it is) another’s worthiness to receive the Eucharist.
Again, you phrase this in such a way as to invite misunderstanding. The key point in all of this is the sin must be public; it must be manifest. This is why scandal becomes an issue: people know about the sin, and can see the person in line to receive.
There are dioceses in which the Bishop has not spoken on whether Pro-Choice Catholic politicians may receive. Some bishops have spoken and some haven’t. This dynamic shows how some who may be seen as objectively unable to receive haven’t been publicly forbidden by their Bishops.
Yes, this has been a problem, and it is very likely something like this that prompted the people to approach their priest.
Layman don’t police the eucharist.
Once again the way you phrase this distorts the true situation. The question of scandal has been raised. The issue is how the priest will respond to it: will he resolve it or will he ignore it?

Ender
 
No, you don’t need to defend what the Church has proclaimed. However, the question of whether divorced and remarried Catholics who have not obtained an annullment should be permitted to receive the Eucharist is before the Synod of Bishops. Pope Francis has encouraged Catholics to question and discuss the issue.

It would perhaps be better if you came to the realization that you are in essence attempting to suppress discussion of the issue in this and other forum threads by disputing virtually any comment that does provide a person’s view on the question.
I have never tried to shut down the debate. What I have done is point to the problems raised by the suggestion that the divorced and remarried should receive communion. Such a thing seems impossible to me without shredding some of the church’s oldest doctrines. It is one thing to blandly suggest the idea should be discussed, but quite another to directly address the problems it raises.

Ender
 
Again, he spoke Church teaching to a group.
No, he didn’t. He called out a particular group of people and excoriated them before his congregation. There is no church teaching in that.
Your application of this in the setting of a homily, speaking in general, would prohibit any but the most water-down, lovey dovey, Kum ba yah homilies.
I’m sure there is pretty great range between “Don’t do evil” and “You’re evil.”
Maybe you think that you should be more concerned about how others stand with God than your own standing. After all, that is the point you take issue with.
No, again this is inaccurate. Why is this so hard to understand? The catechism is quite clear on the subject and priests are as capable of falling as the rest of us.*2477 Respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them unjust injury. He becomes guilty: *
    • of rash judgment who, even tacitly, assumes as true, without sufficient foundation, the moral fault of a neighbor; *
    • of detraction who, without objectively valid reason, discloses another’s faults and failings to persons who did not know them; *
    • of calumny who, by remarks contrary to the truth, harms the reputation of others and gives occasion for false judgments concerning them.*
No, this twist of saying the priest was judgmental when he called us not to be judgmental, well, I do not accept it.
If I called you a Pharisee and of acting “holier than thou” I’m sure you would be offended, and I would very likely get into trouble with the administrators. If such behavior is inappropriate for us in this forum, how much more inappropriate is it for a priest to sling those accusations out during a homily?

Ender
 
No, he didn’t. He called out a particular group of people and excoriated them before his congregation. There is no church teaching in that.
I’m sure there is pretty great range between “Don’t do evil” and “You’re evil.”
No, again this is inaccurate. Why is this so hard to understand? The catechism is quite clear on the subject and priests are as capable of falling as the rest of us.2477* Respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them unjust injury. He becomes guilty: ***
    • of rash judgment who, even tacitly, assumes as true, without sufficient foundation, the moral fault of a neighbor; *
    • of detraction who, without objectively valid reason, discloses another’s faults and failings to persons who did not know them; *
    • of calumny who, by remarks contrary to the truth*, harms the reputation of others and gives occasion for false judgments concerning them.
      If I called you a Pharisee and of acting “holier than thou” I’m sure you would be offended, and I would very likely get into trouble with the administrators. If such behavior is inappropriate for us in this forum, how much more inappropriate is it for a priest to sling those accusations out during a homily?
Ender
The priest in question did not name those who were in fact accusing by name those who they deemed were not worthy of receiving communion…there was no rash judgement on his part…he did not assume as trueor by remarks contrary to the truth or false judgment…the only shame that should be applied here is to those who had no problem in judging others…no one but the priest knows who they are…and I hope they do feel guilty of** personally ** judging others…it appears from the number of posts you have posted on this you have more sympathy for the accusers who don’t seem to mind naming people they deem as unworthy rather than a priest who did not name a single person but has a right to include in his homily the gospel message of those who judge others.
 
The priest in question did not name those who were in fact accusing by name those who they deemed were not worthy of receiving communion…
People keep phrasing this as someone deeming others not worthy of receiving communion, but this is not at all the situation. If we see someone commit a sin are we not free to condemn it? Are we not in fact obligated to chastise the sinner in the hope he will reform? Or does this too constitute an example of the judging that is forbidden us? The church has been very explicit on who she considers unworthy to receive. Why is it a problem for us to expect her ministers to uphold the laws the church has provided?
there was no rash judgement on his part…he did not **assume as true **or by remarks contrary to the truth or false judgment
He assumed they were behaving like the Pharisees. He assumed they had a holier than thou attitude. When did name calling become acceptable for anyone, let alone a priest?
the only shame that should be applied here is to those who had no problem in judging others…no one but the priest knows who they are…
Goodness, I keep saying this but it doesn’t seem to sink in: the sins are public. That’s the whole point. If the priest was the only one who knew about them there would be no scandal and canon 915 would not apply.
…and I hope they do feel guilty of** personally ** judging others
Why should they? We are not forbidden to judge everything, only those things we cannot know. Since the sins are public, that is - known - there is no issue about judging them.
…it appears from the number of posts you have posted on this you have more sympathy for the accusers who don’t seem to mind naming people they deem as unworthy…
Yet again, this description does not even remotely apply to the situation. No one has to “deem” another person as unworthy if that person by his public action has demonstrated his unworthiness.
… rather than a priest who did not name a single person but has a right to include in his homily the gospel message of those who judge others.
Again and again your descriptions don’t reflect reality. The priest didn’t merely remind his congregation about the pitfalls of judging. He branded some people as Pharisees. If such an accusation would get us in trouble on this forum how can it possibly be justifiable for a priest to behave in such fashion?

Ender
 
If I called you a Pharisee and of acting “holier than thou” I’m sure you would be offended, and I would very likely get into trouble with the administrators. If such behavior is inappropriate for us in this forum, how much more inappropriate is it for a priest to sling those accusations out during a homily?

Ender
The operative word here is “me”. The differences are:
  1. That is particular judgment, singling me out.
  2. This is not a homily.
  3. You are not my priest.
  4. God is not calling you to make such a statement.
You do not understand this difference, so I guess I have to give your misuse of that quote a pass.
 
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People keep phrasing this as someone deeming others not worthy of receiving communion, but this is not at all the situation. If we see someone commit a sin are we not free to condemn it? Are we not in fact obligated to chastise the sinner in the hope he will reform? Or does this too constitute an example of the judging that is forbidden us? The church has been very explicit on who she considers unworthy to receive. Why is it a problem for us to expect her ministers to uphold the laws the church has provided?
He assumed they were behaving like the Pharisees. He assumed they had a holier than thou attitude. When did name calling become acceptable for anyone, let alone a priest?
Goodness, I keep saying this but it doesn’t seem to sink in: the sins are public. That’s the whole point. If the priest was the only one who knew about them there would be no scandal and canon 915 would not apply.
Why should they? We are not forbidden to judge everything, only those things we cannot know. Since the sins are public, that is - known - there is no issue about judging them.
Yet again, this description does not even remotely apply to the situation. No one has to “deem” another person as unworthy if that person by his public action has demonstrated his unworthiness.
Again and again your descriptions don’t reflect reality. The priest didn’t merely remind his congregation about the pitfalls of judging. He branded some people as Pharisees. If such an accusation would get us in trouble on this forum how can it possibly be justifiable for a priest to behave in such fashion?

Ender**

Who said anything about naming those who are receiving communion while in a state of sin…our priest in question never once intimated that those accusers were witness to those receiving communion…once again I’ll reiterate what he said…that there were people telling him who should not receive communion…he never said that they were witness to them receiving communion…so here you are assuming that was the case and **judging ** our priest on what you perceive was said to him…I never said anything in my post like you are inferring…you can quote all the canon laws you like til the cows come home…the fact is it was a single statement in a homily…it’s a waste of time beating my head against the wall debating what is a non debate…have a nice day and God bless
 
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