I have a friend who got a “vanity license plate” from the State and it reads Acts 412, the verse reads:After recalling Jesus’ prayer for unity after the Last Supper (John 17) and the unity of early Christians (Acts 4:12)
I will be looking to read the whole speech.12 And there is salvation in no one else; for there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men by which we must be saved.”
The pastor may not always be the one to blame. There have been many parish mergers and bishops installing Spanish Masses, for example. But a lot of that comes from the top too. There is no way around it; there will be hostility and tension.Some of the divisions (and subsequent) conflict in parishes are due to administrative policies put in place by the pastor.