Like Deacon Jeff says KMG the Church is in a situation never encountered before in its history.
We now have many, many basically decent but poorly formed members who are in fact remarried and with children.
If we cast them off, which was the old policy before remarriage became endemic, then we are losing their children. This was recognised way back in 1972. The loosening of sacramental discipline (which is different from accepting mortal sin) we have seen since beginning with JPII and now Pope Francis is really but a playing out of the following “thesis” of 1972. Here is an excerpt that may or may not help:
"The Church is the Church of the New Covenant, but it lives in a world in which the
“hardness of heart” (Mat 19:8) of the Old Covenant remains unchanged. It cannot stop
preaching the faith of the New Covenant, but it must often enough begin its concrete life a bit
below the threshold of the scriptural word. Thus it can in clear emergency situations allow
limited exceptions in order to avoid worse things. Criteria of such action must be: an act
“against what is written,” is limited in that it may not call into question the fundamental
form, the form from which the Church lives. It is therefore bound to the character of
exemption and of help in urgent need - as the transitional missionary situation was, but also
the real emergency situation of the Church union.
Thereby arises, however, the practical question, whether we can name such an emergency
situation in the present-day church and describe an exception that satisfies these criteria. I
would like to try, with all necessary caution, to formulate a concrete proposal that seems to
me to lie within this scope. Where a first marriage broke up a long time ago and in a mutually
irreparable way, and where, conversely, a marriage consequently entered into has proven
itself over a longer period as a moral reality and has been filled with the spirit of the faith,
especially in the education of the children (so that the destruction of this second marriage
would destroy a moral greatness and cause moral harm), the possibility should be granted, in
a non-judicial way, based on the testimony of the pastor and church members, for the
admission to Communion of those in live in such a second marriage. Such an arrangement
seems to me to be…in accord with the tradition…"
Can you guess who wrote these prophetic words back in 1972 which Pope Francis has clearly taken up?