Interesting insight Ben!
**I just wanted to add that to understand Pope Francis as saying we use the velvet with those in the Church may not apply to Catholics in the sense of communicating morals uncompromisingly (though for dealing with those who have left and outside of it, most certainly). **
The reason I think so is that we are called to definitely present the truth without compromise and I do think Pope Francis will not have it any other way. I think what he has said and done himself as well is to emphasize the need to also include the love of God when discussing morality. This is not in the sense that we must acquire a balance between the moral law and God’s love but in the sense of giving people a reason to follow these very difficult precepts. Basically, to correctly present the true relation between the two.
If one were just given the command, it can be hard to follow it. More often today, the Church is seen as an institution that invents the moral law rather than as handing down what was revealed to her by God.
Pope Francis wants to make sure that we do include the fact that God’s love is why we should be renouncing our sinful ways and worldliness (as he emphasized today). We take up our crosses and follow with peace and joy because the love of Christ urges us on.
The priest who uncompromisingly states the moral positions of the Church are therefore by no means condemned or told to tone it down by Pope Francis. He is merely asking them to make sure they give the full message.
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(I think Brother JR can correct me on this if I am wrong, but I believe the Bishop and Pope can only reproach those under them for their homily is they teach error in it or continuously fail to catechize or communicate doctrine important to the life of the faithful. The style, emphasis, and how they communicate the teachings of the Church is left to the freedom of the Bishop or Priest.)**