A few friends of mine have gone to a “Catholic charismatic retreat”, and there was a band playing, and they said that at one point, the people running the event went on stage and said something like “okay everyone we’re going to talk in tongues now” and immediately they started “talking in tongues”.
To me it sounded very forced and unnatural and random and meaningless.
The friend who went there defended this, saying control over your gift is part of the gift, which is why they could do it on demand, and it was just another way of worshipping God and giving him glory. I think they also said that you shouldn’t say it’s not from the Holy Spirit because that’s blasphemy against the Holy Spirit.
Maybe her point about controlling the gift is valid. But it hardly seems like a way to worship (“worth-ship”, or “acknowledge the worthiness of”) God. Also it doesn’t seem like it would be blasphemy against the Holy Spirit if you come to this conclusion by exercising prudent judgment through prayerful discernment.
Now, I’m very cautious to make judgments about these things, because that would be related to the sin of rashness. But I’m very, very skeptical about this speaking in tongues thing. And because of that, I’m also very skeptical about that whole retreat they went to.