Those who are for abortion have already excommunicated themselves. They are in clear defianceand disobedience to God’s divine will and commandment,"Thou shall not kill."How can a mother even think of killing her own child in her womb ? You call it choice? The choice to kill your very own innocent child?
As a person who has had an abortion, let me speak…
Yes what I did was wrong, and I paid for it in a lot of ways.
At the time, I was in my worst sinful state, I was sleeping with a married man and he was the father, he begged me to have the abortion so I did. (Yes it was my decision, i was not pushed, but he left it up to me).
So after all that, doing my worst, and to cut a long story short, Ive finally woken up to myself, come back to the mother church and have prayed to God to forgive me MANY times. I have been to confession countless times and confessed about this. I went on a retreat called the Project Rachel retreat, its for catholics that have had abortions and to help them on the path back to God.
I believe and felt in my heart 100% God himself guided me towards Project Rachel to help me through the hard times and when I was ready to return to the church.
When I (I cant speak for others who have had abortions) had mine, i felt it was the right thing to do, but when i came out of there, i felt the loss instantly, and it was like my heart was ripped out as well. To this day, i still feel like there is something missing in my life. People that do have abortions do pay for what they have done through the pain off loss. You are never the same person after it. And it really does make you hate abortion.
So basically, i dont like abortion at all, i hate it, i dont wish it on anyone. But some people when they do it, they dont know what they are getting themselves into. You are told its ‘just a bunch of cells’ only to come out afterwards and realise it was a life.
Now that im entering into my prime as a catholic, i hope this horrid thing will end. After been through the trap of this sin myself, i will never do it again. I feel now in my heart God has forgiven me, but the thing is, i have not forgiven myself. That weight alone is enough to turn people away from doing it in the first place. I pray the day will come when there is no more abortion.