I apologize if you feel I was insulting you. That certainly was not my intent. However, I think you misunderstand my post. First of all, I do not advocate receiving communion in the hand. I also do not advocate receiving communion on the tongue. Both are acceptable in my opinion. My point is that receiving communion in either way does not indicate whether one is holier, more respectful, more traditional, more loving, or more faithful than anyone else, and making a judgement that it does indicate such things seems to go against the very unity we proclaim when we receive the Eucharist in the first place.
Secondly, in spite of your assertion that there is a serious lack of respect for the Eucharist in many places, I do not find that those who receive the Eucharist in the hand are any less respectful than those who do not. In the parish I attend, where most people receive the Eucharist in the hand, there is a great deal of regard for the Eucharist and a sense of awe and prayer permeates the Church during the Eucharistic Rite. I do not believe that these folks need to be upbraided or criticized for their practice of receiving communion in the hand because other folks in other places may show less respect. It should be a matter of education where there is less respect. Even if the common practice was to receive communion on the tongue, do you really think those folks would be more respectful? There have always been abuses in the Church and folks who do not appreciate the fact that the Lord is actually present to us in the Liturgy. These abuses did not begin with Vatican II or in 1965. Indeed, they were present at the Last Supper when Judas participated in the meal with the foreknowledge that he would betray the Lord. Anyway, in the end, as I mentioned in my last post, it is not the position of the knees or the hands or the tongue that is of primary importance when recieving our Lord in the Holy Eucharist. It is the position of your heart and your desire to be united with him in the sacrifice of the Mass and in your daily life.