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kyrie03
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Who are we to judge the woman? Only God can see the heart and judge appropriately. The action, though, is judged according to the unchangeable truths regarding marriage and the Eucharist that have consistently been taught as binding on all the faithful.Here’s a thought experiment: a lapsed Catholic woman divorces and then remarries a Protestant man who she has children with. The woman and the man both work, and together can just put food on the table for all people in the house. The lapsed Catholic woman then desires to come back to the Church but doesn’t know how. She decides to meet a priest, and after explaining her situation she is told by the priest that she can’t receive Communion unless she lives as brother and sister. She informs her husband, who has a different understanding of marriage. He feels she is unjustly trying to tear apart what he thinks is a legitimate marriage, and says he will divorce her if she refuses to engage in sexual relations. A divorce would likely have a devastating effect on the children, and by having to find new living arrangement and other complications brought on by the divorce they would often go hungry. Fearing this result, the woman continues to have relations…
I ask this rhetorically, but feel free to respond: is this Catholic woman’s culpability mitigated to the point where we could say that she does not have full consent? Does this open up the possibility for Communion for her?
Familiaris Consortio explains:
The hypothetical woman could probably find a pastor to tell her otherwise but that doesn’t change the truth of the teaching.However, the Church reaffirms her practice, which is based upon Sacred Scripture, of not admitting to Eucharistic Communion divorced persons who have remarried. They are unable to be admitted thereto from the fact that their state and condition of life objectively contradict that union of love between Christ and the Church which is signified and effected by the Eucharist. Besides this, there is another special pastoral reason: if these people were admitted to the Eucharist, the faithful would be led into error and confusion regarding the Church’s teaching about the indissolubility of marriage.
Reconciliation in the sacrament of Penance which would open the way to the Eucharist, can only be granted to those who, repenting of having broken the sign of the Covenant and of fidelity to Christ, are sincerely ready to undertake a way of life that is no longer in contradiction to the indissolubility of marriage. This means, in practice, that when, for serious reasons, such as for example the children’s upbringing, a man and a woman cannot satisfy the obligation to separate, they “take on themselves the duty to live in complete continence, that is, by abstinence from the acts proper to married couples.”[180]