Pope says condoms sometimes permissible to stop AIDS

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I’m not talking about PC language, and clearly you’ve missed my own reasoning about this. I disagree with most of your response, frankly. He’s public; doesn’t matter that he’s a religious figure. He speaks to secular audiences as well, and even when he issues religious documents, the press will notice and pick up on it.

If he were clear in his definitions, terms, and logical flow, no one would “confuse, distort, and generalize” because the proper context would be there. He didn’t clarify the context, or the reason for the exception (the most important part of his pronoucement).
You can’t expect to understand an entire book when you read a single paragraph on a random page. The same is true when there’s a conversation between two people.

I don’t see the difficulty people are having with all of this. It all seems pretty clear and simple to me.

And I doubt any of my friends would confuse me with being a Catholic.
 
I’m not sure why you’re talking down to me (since I mentioned earlier that I’m trained in moral theology), but I’m not particularly appreciative of it.
I haven’t responded to the rest of your post because I wasn’t talking down to you and you were therefore defending against an attack that was never made. I was stating, as someone who understands this as you do, that there isn’t any need to dumb it down for anyone else… That this would be a good time for them to pick up a book to better understand their faith.

Notice I didn’t use “you” when I wrote what I wrote.
 
My real worry is not on what the Pope has to say, but like many of you here, its how he is saying it. I hope that he is careful of how he words things. Lets all pray for him so that he does. 🙂
 
You obviously fail to understand the definition of the word “gift”
Yeah, someone can give you a “gift” with evil intentions, like sending a rude package or giving you candy you cannot eat, and you can still turn it to good by giving the candy to someone else, or pretending that the person meant well and thank them anyway. That’s not a perfect analogy but a baby is always a gift even if it was conceived through rape.
 
I’m not sure why you’re talking down to me (since I mentioned earlier that I’m trained in moral theology), but I’m not particularly appreciative of it. I have a library of “good books.” I don’t need clarification because I get the reason for his statement, and continue to maintain that the context was extremely poor (male homosexual prostitution) and, when not explained, prone to distortion and confusion by their nature.

The very basic (not elevated) catechesis of Catholics is in extremely poor shape. It has not been substantially improved since the decline of catechesis in the 1970’s. And it will not be substantially improved until two things occur: (1) appointment of RCIA and CCD directors who are vetted for their own proper and thorough understanding of the faith, including but not limited to moral theology, and (2) oversight of religious education, in CCD, in RCIA, and in Catholic schools.

If people on CAF question, or are ignorant about, some of the most basic sacramental theology, scriptural, systematic, and moral theology, and not willing to “open a good book,” what makes you think that an outsider – someone less acquainted with the faith – will take the time to analyze Catholic moral frameworks in order to sort through the Pope’s statement?

No, the Pope would do well to take the initiative. He would do well to do this now.
I have just become a fan of Elizabeth502. Terrific and highly logical.

Annie
 
The Church teaches that Birth Control is an intrinsic evil, such as abortion and masterbation. That means there is NEVER a reason by which it would be justified. There can be justification for murder and war, such as in self defense or in the case of the “Just War”. I repeat BC can NEVER be justified for ANY reason.
Then, with all due respect, you don’t understand Church teaching. The Church in the U.S. allows a rape victim who is not pregnant to use a method to prevent a pregnancy from the rape. And what is called “birth control” can be used to treat hormone imbalances in women. It’s not all black and white.
If the Pope is saying that BC can be used to prevent AIDS, then he is flat out wrong. This goes against the teaching of the church and any catholic who hasn’t been in a coma over the last few decades knows this.
Does it really go against the teaching of the Church? And is it an ex cathedra statement? Is the Pope entitled to his opinion? Is that something he needs to give up once he becomes Pope? Of course you are entitled to your opinion. But isn’t the Pope entitled to his opinion, too?

Jesus said that the gates of hell shall not prevail against the Church. So they won’t.
Stop making excuses everytime something like this happens. I’m sick to death of it! Sometimes things are exactly as they appear to be. The pope is not a dunce. He had to have known what scandle his comments would lead to in the age of “viral” electronic media. And he has to know that there are factions in the church which are just aching to undo the teaching on BC.
No excuses need to be made because the Pope did nothing wrong. You’re making assumptions. It’s true that sometimes things are exactly as they appear to be and this is one of those cases. But what it appears to be (and is) is a comment made about a male homosexual prostitute and nobody else.
It makes no difference whether it’s “from the chair” or simply his opinion millions of catholics are going to walk away from this thinking that the Pope has OKed condom use in certain circumstances.
It is very sad that so many Catholics (and non-Catholics) don’t understand infallibility and ex cathedra statements. Maybe we should educate them? If millions of Catholics walk away from this thinking that the Pope has said that condom use is acceptable in certain circumstances, then they are correct. It’s the certain circumstances that is important. If millions of Catholics walk away thinking that the Pope has said that condom use is OK among heterosexuals, then they are completely wrong.
What about the woman who has had 8 children and her doctors warn her another could kill her? Does the husband who fears for his wife’s life now feel justified in wearing a condom? Well why wouldn’t he? If it’s good enough for homosexual prostitutes in Africa, why not good catholic married men?
Good enough? Don’t you understand that it isn’t that it’s “good enough”? Do you think condom use is something good? Do you think Catholics want to use condoms? Or do you think that in marriage both the husband and wife are blessed almost beyond belief with the possibility of being allowed to conceive, nurture, and raise a child? Good Catholic married men would never use condoms or if they did they would confess their grievous sin. Anyway, why would a good Catholic man use a condom? Because of what the Pope said about a homosexual male prostitute? Why are you comparing the two situations? The married man is so blessed! The homosexual male prostitute is carrying a heavy cross and should be prayed for and maybe even pitied.
And I thought I was at my breaking point with the Pope’s 2007 letter to the Chinese underground church. I am a hairs breath away from Pope Pius X.
I don’t know about all that is going on and I really haven’t made up my mind on whether what the Pope said was a good thing or a bad thing. But what I’m seeing in a lot of posts is that the Pope’s words are being taken out of context and being used to somehow show that a person can justify the use of condoms with the Pope’s (and ergo, the Church’s) blessing. (I don’t mean that your post has stated this.) The Pope’s comments were specifically about male homosexual prostitutes, not married (or unmarried) heterosexual couples.

The Pope never stated what you are stating in your post. If heterosexual married men (or even those that aren’t married) use condoms they are participating in a grave matter. Period. The reason behind this is that it blocks the possibility of pregnancy and that is not allowed as it, along with bonding in love, is what marriage is for. A homosexual prostitute is not going to impregnate another homosexual male. It can’t be done. But that prostitute can give HIV to his “client.” The two are not married and cannot be married, so why bring in all this stuff about marriage?

Please, I don’t want to argue with anyone and I can understand a bit where you are coming from. I can see the problems that have been caused by the Pope’s statement. But if what he said is Truth, how can that be wrong? Do we Catholics have to walk on egg shells all the time because we might offend someone or cause someone who doesn’t understand Church teaching to leave the Church? Should we speak in whispers only amongst ourselves so that we don’t offend a non-Catholic?

There is a lot of prejudice against Catholics and a lot of it shows up in these forums. I’ve experienced it. Probably most of us have. This is an opportunity for us to teach those who don’t understand. And if we are persecuted for it, so what? Remember: Blessed are they that suffer persecution for justice’ sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

It seems worth it to me.
 
I haven’t responded to the rest of your post because I wasn’t talking down to you and you were therefore defending against an attack that was never made. I was stating, as someone who understands this as you do, that there isn’t any need to dumb it down for anyone else… That this would be a good time for them to pick up a book to better understand their faith.
And I’m explaning to you that (1) they’re not going to do that – most Catholics and almost all non-Catholics; (2) many even Catholics don’t have proper training in enough essentials about moral theology to be able to wade through books without additional guidance. Not because they’re stupid, but because it does take a little time and the distinctions are not always as apparent to a theological novice as to those who have been raised on it from the cradle. I take my evidence both from the parishes and from CAF.

I wish more Catholics, and more nonCatholics who write about Catholics, would be more curious, but they’re not. This is sound-bite culture on steroids.

Just to show that I’m not crazy, cyberspace is abuzz with this story. Here’s one of the typical comments, from over 12 pages of comments about the story:
I guess Catholics are OK with male prostitution now. Nice!!
 
:confused:

I assume you are talking about emergency contraception … but that is always an abortifacient, no?
No. An abortifacient stops a pregnancy from continuing, perhaps by not allowing the embryo to attach to the uterine wall.

If there is a chance that a raped woman is pregnant, the Church does not allow the use of anything to stop that pregnancy. And if she has become pregnant from the rape, she is still not allowed to do anything to stop the pregnancy from continuing. Which makes sense as the Church is adamantly pro-life.

Here is the link:

nccbuscc.org/prolife/issues/abortion/ecfact.shtml

"Treatment of Victims of Sexual Assault:
Victims of sexual assault should be treated with compassion and understanding. Health care providers who treat sexual assault victims should provide medically accurate information and offer spiritual and psychological support.

A woman who has been raped should be able to defend herself from a potential conception and receive treatments to suppress ovulation and incapacitate sperm. If conception has occurred, however, a Catholic hospital will not dispense drugs to interfere with implantation of a newly conceived human embryo.

Hospitals should develop appropriate protocols to determine whether administering emergency contraception would have an abortifacient effect. Tests are available to determine whether ovulation has occurred."

[bolding has been added for emphasis]
 
Oh yes it is an abortifacient! Here is their own statement from the website.

Plan B One-Step™ is a backup plan that helps prevent pregnancy after birth control failure. The sooner you take emergency contraception, the better it works. Plan B One-Step™ is just one pill, so you get what you need right away. Other emergency contraception requires two pills, 12 hours apart.

If the condom broke and you think you might be pregnant - or might become pregnant, this pill must stop the egg from implanting in the uterus. Fertilized egg = baby. Fertilized egg not able to implant = abortion.
Please provide a link or other appropriate access to the website, or please provide the post number where you found the link. I can’t find a post with the link in it.

Oh, and you might want to check the following link:

nccbuscc.org/prolife/issues/abortion/ecfact.shtml
 
My real worry is not on what the Pope has to say, but like many of you here, its how he is saying it. I hope that he is careful of how he words things. Lets all pray for him so that he does. 🙂
👍 Excellent idea!! Prayer is probably our best tool right now. Please, let us all pray for the Pope - that he be given wisdom from the Holy Spirit so that he knows what to do now.
 
I don’t want anyone to think that I’m ignoring responses made to my posts but I’m not feeling too well right now and I think it’s best if I leave this thread. It’s very hard for me to research websites about subjects such as this one because I run across so much rabid anti-Catholicism which hurts me deeply.

I will pray for our Holy Father. I hope we all pray for him and for greater understanding among all people, including ourselves.

May God’s peace be with us all.
 
I wish more Catholics, and more nonCatholics who write about Catholics, would be more curious, but they’re not. This is sound-bite culture on steroids.
Elizabeth, it seems as if you’re holding the pope responsible for the current situation, because his way of talking about the subject didn’t take our “sound-bite culture” into account.

If this is what you’re saying, it hardly seems fair. When the pope said these words, he wasn’t setting out to give a bunch of simple one-line statements to the media. This discussion was part of a book-length interview, in which he spoke in depth about his ideas on various topics. The book was intended to be read by thoughtful Catholics who feel comfortable with such lengthy, in-depth discussions. There’s a substantial precedent for this; as Cardinal Ratzinger and Benedict XVI, he has already written a couple of shelves’ worth of books, God bless him. Some of them are more theologically complex than others, but none of them are lightweight, and many address difficult issues (the liturgy, Judaism, modern Scripture scholarship, etc).

Should we only ever write in sound-bites, just in case someone (like L’Osservatore Romano) leaks excerpts to the media before people have had a chance to read and consider the whole work? I don’t think so.

The Holy Father is no twit, and neither are the readers for whom this interview was intended. As such, it doesn’t make sense to judge his statements by the “hermeneutic of Twitter.” 🤷
 
So we applaud him for using a condom? Oh please!!!
I think what Janet Smith wrote should answer this question:

“If someone was going to rob a bank and was determined to use a gun, it would better for that person to use a gun that had no bullets in it. It would reduce the likelihood of fatal injuries. But it is not the task of the Church to instruct potential bank robbers how to rob banks more safely and certainly not the task of the Church to support programs of providing potential bank robbers with guns that could not use bullets. Nonetheless, the intent of a bank robber to rob a bank in a way that is safer for the employees and customers of the bank may indicate an element of moral responsibility that could be a step towards eventual understanding of the immorality of bank robbing.” 👍

Take this with what everyone has been showing you what BXVI really meant, should suffice. I hope.
 
No matter how people want to spin this, the seeming result of what the Pope said is simple really:

There are times when wearing condoms is “BETTER” than not wearing condoms.
 
No matter how people want to spin this, the seeming result of what the Pope said is simple really:

There are times when wearing condoms is “BETTER” than not wearing condoms.
No. Abyssinia put it perfectly:

“He says that if your intention is to reduce the risk of infection then that can be a first step in a movement towards a more human way of living sexuality.” Remember, he is talking about people who are going to use condoms anyway.

Further, she states:

“It is as if the Pope said “beating your wife is never okay but if you decide to beat your wife less often then you are moving in the right direction” and the headline comes back “Pope condones wife beating”.”

Basically, (no offence) but you are in the “Pope condones wife beating camp” And I hope you can see this. This whole debacle is I agree something that the Church didn’t need. And since the pagan media has ran riot with this, His Holiness needs to put this straight and he needs to do it now.
 
Exactly! This ambiguity is what is so disconcerting. This tiny little point about the use of condoms by male prostitutes engaging in homosexual acts is now responsible for headlines like “Pope approves use of condoms.”

I know what the Pope meant, but his statement was ambiguous and confusing. Public figures have to see the consequences of their statements, and he apparently did not look ahead enough.
Sounds as if the Pope is saying that male prostitution is okay as long as you use a condom. Pope Benedict most certainly probably does not mean it like that, but the example of the male prostitute is weird. Their needs to be further clarification of this from the Holy See.

If the Pope is against contraception where a life could be created then the only possible example of where contraception is okay could be between two men. But homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered. So why would contraception be okay for them, if they are already in sin?
 
No matter how people want to spin this, the seeming result of what the Pope said is simple really:

There are times when wearing condoms is “BETTER” than not wearing condoms.
Even if he did say that – in the specific context of a homosexual act, where the condom is not being used as a contraceptive – can you explain how you see this as conflicting with Catholic teaching?

Either way, the homosexual act itself would still be gravely sinful, so this isn’t a “solution” we’d recommend – just as in Janet Smith’s example, the Church isn’t about to go into the business of distributing fake guns to bank robbers.
 
Elizabeth, it seems as if you’re holding the pope responsible for the current situation, because his way of talking about the subject didn’t take our “sound-bite culture” into account.

If this is what you’re saying, it hardly seems fair. When the pope said these words, he wasn’t setting out to give a bunch of simple one-line statements to the media. This discussion was part of a book-length interview, in which he spoke in depth about his ideas on various topics.
Mary, this may surprise you, but I can read. And I do read. And I know what the context of the Pope’s comments were. If anyone should be encouraged (perhaps) to do some reading, perhaps it would be you? (Earlier on this thread I’ve explained this, so you wouldn’t be Repeating the Obvious to me, if you had read what I wrote already, on this very thread.)
Should we only ever write in sound-bites, just in case someone (like L’Osservatore Romano) leaks excerpts to the media before people have had a chance to read and consider the whole work?
No. The Vatican, with its successful security – way more successful than most secular arenas – should make sure that L’Osservatore Romano does not leak incomplete, partial excerpts to a secular public which includes those who do read O.R. And now that it has been leaked, damage control is in order. And you and other posters can deny this if you wish, but it’s all over the news wires. That’s even from people who understand what he’s saying, in context. Even they are saying, “Why the H did he bring up male prostitution?”
The Holy Father is no twit, and neither are the readers for whom this interview was intended. As such, it doesn’t make sense to judge his statements by the “hermeneutic of Twitter.” 🤷
I didn’t call him a twit or even nearly imply he was stupid or shallow or irresponsible. I find your insinuation that I did so disrespectful in the extreme. I didn’t "judge his statements to be “the hermeneutic of Twitter.” But things go viral quickly, and the Church (as the Bishops well understand from my watching a great deal of the USCCB conference) have to be aware of the speed of communication to a completely different level than was previously true, and guard their lips and their timing accordingly.
 
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