Then you do not totally disagree if, as you say, it comes up in moral discussions, such as on CAF. Furthermore, the fact that the term does come up in moral discussions makes it even more misleading since the moral opponents of homosexual lifestyle often define gay people strictly in those sexual terms instead of being attuned to their moral behavior in other areas of life. IOW, a discussion of morality should encompass more than sexuality as a definition of one’s life. Even when sexuality is the primary topic of discussion, there ought to be a larger context, just as there usually is when the topic is heterosexual behavior.