Poverty is the ultimate form of control

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And men, often another part of the problem is help is lopsoded to on group or another. I posted this before but note I was approached by a single dad and he asked me where to get help
I did not know. I reluctantly gave money and went home to look up where people can get help and print out a list.
I got rather sad but glad I gave the money as there was literally no place for a single dad 😦
Moms with kids
Women
Drug addict single men

That is all the help there is…
I agree there is little assistance and support out there for single men. The reason is society still sees childcare as primarily the mother’s responsibility, and in reality often is.

There is also little assistance for men who are victims of domestic violence. Domestic violence against men has significantly risen in the last two years in Northern Ireland.
Sounds like a good idea. I just hope it is incremental and not instant number
No it’s not an instant number. It’s calculated in accordance with income.
 
…the ultimate form of social control is the mass media. It shapes our attitudes, values, and beliefs.
This is it.

Poverty is the natural state of mankind. We are born with nothing. Through the ages, we have created wealth. But wealth can be lost.

In the USA, everyone has access to the writings of St. Thomas Aquinas. Everyone has access to all of the music of J.S. Bach. Everyone can ornament their wall with the Mona Lisa. But the mass media has been employed to convince people to cast aside our wealth.

The Catholic faith is of greater value than any of these things.

With the faith, no one is truly poor. Without the faith, no one is truly rich.
 
I agree there is little assistance and support out there for single men. The reason is society still sees childcare as primarily the mother’s responsibility, and in reality often is.
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There is also little assistance for men who are victims of domestic violence. Domestic violence against men has significantly risen in the last two years in Northern Ireland. **

No it’s not an instant number. It’s calculated in accordance with income.
Well, let’s be honest…well actually idk Ireland lol…

But typically if a woman is beating a man and he pushed her to be able to run away he is going to jail and she is getting special victims assistance.

There is an old movie I think speaks to reality well. I believe it was Michael Douglas who was sexually harassed and assaulted by his female boss. Basically she tells that he did it to her and his life gets pretty rough. Everyone auto blames him for being a creeper.
 
This is it.

Poverty is the natural state of mankind. We are born with nothing. Through the ages, we have created wealth. But wealth can be lost.

In the USA, everyone has access to the writings of St. Thomas Aquinas. Everyone has access to all of the music of J.S. Bach. Everyone can ornament their wall with the Mona Lisa. But the mass media has been employed to convince people to cast aside our wealth.

The Catholic faith is of greater value than any of these things.

With the faith, no one is truly poor. Without the faith, no one is truly rich.
I don’t think poverty is a natural state - certainly not if it is imposed by others as a form of control.

People can access Aquinas if they can read, and listen to Bach if they have internet access.

I don’t think everyone can hang the Mona Lisa on their wall. A copy of it yes, but there are varying levels of quality in terms of copies.

The mass media had been employed to convince people to cast aside their wealth? i don’t think that is true. What about all these adverts about claims and making money?
 
Well, let’s be honest…well actually idk Ireland lol…

But typically if a woman is beating a man and he pushed her to be able to run away he is going to jail and she is getting special victims assistance.

There is an old movie I think speaks to reality well. I believe it was Michael Douglas who was sexually harassed and assaulted by his female boss. Basically she tells that he did it to her and his life gets pretty rough. Everyone auto blames him for being a creeper.
I saw that film. I also saw another one about domestic violence, and another with Chris Noth who’s daughter was being abused by the stepfather. He takes her to a hostel for safety but when he contacts them at first they hang up and won’t believe him, and it takes some persuasion and persistence on his part to get help.

I worked for a while with an organization named Victim Support providing support for prosecution witnesses. On one occasion two young men were witnesses. One of them had been assaulted by a female. Like most defendant’s in the magistrates court she was banking on them not turning up to testify, but they did. She was convicted and fined.

In the past a lot of men did not report assault were the perpetrator was female because of embarrassment, but times have changed.
 
I think it depends on how his Air Force peers grew up.

If your family did not value education, chances are neither would you.

If you dare defy familial tradition and get yourself into higher education, there is this negative reaction against you. Comments like “think you’re better than us?” or comments like “book smart but no common sense.” or if you are a member of an ethic minority, accused of acting white.
All of this is accurate and correct.

But some people defy convention.

In the case of my family, a minimum amount of education was all that was supported. BUT, I somehow developed a habit of reading a lot.

Books opened up a whole new world for me.

I also used to pray a LOT. Didn’t know why, but I did.

Joined the Air Force because I liked airplanes. But the work was boring. So, to avoid drinking I signed up for classes, mail order courses, local area classes, all at modest cost.

Started taking flying lessons. Was told I needed to take a pre-solo written exam … duh … ok. Aced it without any ground school. Because I read so much.

One thing just led to another.

There was some colonel who seemed smart. He had an MBA. So I signed up for an MBA, paid for by the VA [after I forced them to follow their own rules.]

Did a lot of research on my own … ended up with an MS in Pastoral Counseling.

I just loved learning new stuff.

[Was constantly criticized for studying and researching … especially new stuff. ]

The other problem I have is my habit of running into burning buildings. Whole 'nuther story.
 
I don’t think poverty is a natural state - certainly not if it is imposed by others as a form of control.
It is though. Do you think computers, cars, food, or anything else worth having just springs into existence? No! They are the result of the human mind. Unless violence or fraud is allowed, poverty cannot be used as a form of control.

If you keep your knees together, graduate from high school, and work 40 hours a week at any job, your chances of poverty are miniscule.
 
It is though. Do you think computers, cars, food, or anything else worth having just springs into existence? No! They are the result of the human mind. Unless violence or fraud is allowed, poverty cannot be used as a form of control.

If you keep your knees together, graduate from high school, and work 40 hours a week at any job, your chances of poverty are miniscule.
If it is the natural state then it can be argued God intends this is how humankind should live.

Of course computers and cars do not spring into existence. Not having these things is not poverty, but if you live in a society where it is significantly difficult if not virtually impossible to purchase goods and services without a computer, this limits your options. If it is next to impossible to get to and from work without a car your options are limited. A job I had recently required internet access to apply for the job and also carry out online training at home.

If where you live is limited by your financial status this again limits your options. This also impacts on the schools you can send your kids to. This is also relevant to school uniforms that are realistically beyond your means yet you do not qualify for assistance. I recently paid £200 for my kids compulsory PE kit and they go to the local school.

Those who are worst off are those who do work 40 hours a week but are on a low income. In my part of the world many people who graduated from university are working 40 hours a week in low paid jobs because it is the only job they can get. This in turn disadvantages those who did not go to university.

Fraud is a permanent feature of society today because it is so easy and causes economic hardship. Of course is not allowed, but fraudsters have to be caught and even when they are, they often can’t pay back what they effectively stole.

In short,not having children, graduating from high school and working 40 hours a week - assuming you can get a job - does not necessarily protect individuals from poverty.
 
It is though. Do you think computers, cars, food, or anything else worth having just springs into existence? No! They are the result of the human mind. Unless violence or fraud is allowed, poverty cannot be used as a form of control.

If you keep your knees together, graduate from high school, and work 40 hours a week at any job, your chances of poverty are miniscule.
Much food does spring into existence and many societies have the capacity to live off the land.

If no food was a natural state this would not happen.
 
It is though. Do you think computers, cars, food, or anything else worth having just springs into existence? No! They are the result of the human mind. Unless violence or fraud is allowed, poverty cannot be used as a form of control.

If you keep your knees together, graduate from high school, and work 40 hours a week at any job, your chances of poverty are miniscule.
Not if you do the math. Minimum wage times 40 hours is going to pay rent, food, transportation, insurance (auto and health), utilities, clothing?
 
Not if you do the math. Minimum wage times 40 hours is going to pay rent, food, transportation, insurance (auto and health), utilities, clothing?
Good point MM 👍

In reading this thread there appears to be a stereotypical image of ‘the poor’ in that ‘the poor’ are women who have kids to different fathers at a young age - don’t know if the fathers are included, those who drop out of High School, prefer to claim benefits rather than work because they are lazy, and have loads of ‘stuff’ people who work can’t afford. There is no doubt such people do exist in society, but do not constitute ‘the poor’ in total.

The worst off in society are those who work but earn fractionally more in disposable income to quality for any assistance, yet in reality insufficient to meet need. An actual example of that in my part of world is a woman who was a victim of domestic violence. She could not get a restraining order because she could not obtain the services of a lawyer because she earned fractionally more than the qualifying threshold, yet could not realistically afford a lawyer. Lawyers do assist people pro bono but it a long process, numerous individuals are competing for pro bono work. In the meantime she and her children are at risk. Focusing on ‘the poor’ who fit the stereotype blinds us to plight of those who do not.
 
If it is the natural state then it can be argued God intends this is how humankind should live.
It is natural in the same sense that disease is natural. It is an obstacle to be overcome, but it does not change the fact that left unattended, these things are the starting point for humanity.
Those who are worst off are those who do work 40 hours a week but are on a low income. In my part of the world many people who graduated from university are working 40 hours a week in low paid jobs because it is the only job they can get. This in turn disadvantages those who did not go to university.
The problem is that people are refusing to do blue collar jobs. I work as an armored truck driver, my company is always hiring. We make significantly more than the minimum. My brother works as a plumber’s apprentice. No prior experience, no college education. He makes more money than I do. In my area, there are plenty of construction and trucking jobs open. They pay well, but they lack the bodies.
Fraud is a permanent feature of society today because it is so easy and causes economic hardship. Of course is not allowed, but fraudsters have to be caught and even when they are, they often can’t pay back what they effectively stole.
We do have laws against it and they are enforced every so often. We should also bring back chain gangs, that way offenders could earn back the money they stole.
Much food does spring into existence and many societies have the capacity to live off the land.

If no food was a natural state this would not happen.
You still have to gather it and process it in some form. Even then, this assumes that you would want to live in Mr. John Locke’s state of nature.
Not if you do the math. Minimum wage times 40 hours is going to pay rent, food, transportation, insurance (auto and health), utilities, clothing?
Less than 4% of all hourly workers make minimum wage or less. bls.gov/opub/reports/minimum-wage/archive/characteristics-of-minimum-wage-workers-2014.pdf

Get a roommate, buy things used. That is what I do.
Good point MM 👍

In reading this thread there appears to be a stereotypical image of ‘the poor’ in that ‘the poor’ are women who have kids to different fathers at a young age - don’t know if the fathers are included, those who drop out of High School, prefer to claim benefits rather than work because they are lazy, and have loads of ‘stuff’ people who work can’t afford. There is no doubt such people do exist in society, but do not constitute ‘the poor’ in total.

The worst off in society are those who work but earn fractionally more in disposable income to quality for any assistance, yet in reality insufficient to meet need.
It is not a question of money though. In the United States, we spend $84,000 for every four people in poverty every year. In other words, we could be cutting every poor family a check for $60,000 and we would still be ahead. However, this is the government in operation and what government would want people to not be dependent on them? Before I set up my Objectivist utopia and completely dismantle the welfare state, I have some ideas on how to reform the system. One such idea would be having welfare benefits scale with income into the lower middle class bracket. The welfare would be such that working and welfare would give more money than welfare alone assuming you are working 40 hours a week.
 
And men, often another part of the problem is help is lopsoded to on group or another. I posted this before but note I was approached by a single dad and he asked me where to get help
I did not know. I reluctantly gave money and went home to look up where people can get help and print out a list.
I got rather sad but glad I gave the money as there was literally no place for a single dad 😦
Moms with kids
Women
Drug addict single men

That is all the help there is…

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That sucks. Single dads should have help available to them if they need it.
 
It is natural in the same sense that disease is natural. It is an obstacle to be overcome, but it does not change the fact that left unattended, these things are the starting point for humanity.
I don’t agree poverty is the natural state of humanity. The first thing we do when we are born is seek food. That is natural. Thus, doing without food is not natural. Doing without food causes disease, this is not natural. In my view describing poverty as natural is a way of absolving ourselves from responsibility.
The problem is that people are refusing to do blue collar jobs. I work as an armored truck driver, my company is always hiring. We make significantly more than the minimum. My brother works as a plumber’s apprentice. No prior experience, no college education. He makes more money than I do. In my area, there are plenty of construction and trucking jobs open. They pay well, but they lack the bodies.We do have laws against it and they are enforced every so often. We should also bring back chain gangs, that way offenders could earn back the money they stole.You still have to gather it and process it in some form. Even then, this assumes that you would want to live in Mr. John Locke’s state of nature.Less than 4% of all hourly workers make minimum wage or less. bls.gov/opub/reports/minimum-wage/archive/characteristics-of-minimum-wage-workers-2014.pdf

Get a roommate, buy things used. That is what I do.
Perhaps in your part of the world people do refuse blue collar jobs, I can’t comment. What I do know is in my part of the world many university graduates are in minimum wage jobs because it’s the only work they can get

Single people can get a roommate, but this solution is more difficult for young couples with young families. It’s a mistake to think if others do what I do then they will be OK.

Don’t get the reference to Locke. The reason why I would say poverty is the ultimate form of control is it is so dis-empowering. There is little to equal poverty in terms dis-empowerment. An example of this is legal rights. Where legal rights are denied and individuals have not the capacity to advocate their own case or pay a lawyer, the legal right has little value.
It is not a question of money though. In the United States, we spend $84,000 for every four people in poverty every year. In other words, we could be cutting every poor family a check for $60,000 and we would still be ahead. However, this is the government in operation and what government would want people to not be dependent on them? Before I set up my Objectivist utopia and completely dismantle the welfare state, I have some ideas on how to reform the system. One such idea would be having welfare benefits scale with income into the lower middle class bracket. The welfare would be such that working and welfare would give more money than welfare alone assuming you are working 40 hours a week.
The question I posed in the OP was - Trickle down policies should encompass strategies that compensate for the effects of poverty other than charity.

The answer to that question is either a straight yes they should or no they should not.

If the answer is yes - what should those strategies be?

If the answer is no - why not?

Some posters have responded positively by stating policies that facilitate education assists in reducing the effects of poverty.

Others like you have said dismantle the welfare state. I fail to see how this would compensate for poverty. I take your point about dependency, but surely no welfare at all would create more poverty. It cannot validly be argued if the welfare state was dismantled everyone on benefits would get a job and become upwardly mobile. I can understand why you used the term objectivist utopia. I am more interested in the here and now and the realities on the ground.

A strategy that appeals to me is people who work should be better of than those who do not. Many people who work find they are worse off than they would be if they claimed benefit. I would also say in my part of the world there are some who claim benefits can have their gadgets, expensive jewellry and trips abroad because they sell drugs. Thus, what is needed is not stopping benefits but tackling drug dealings. Stop the drug dealers benefits and chances are they will get by or end up in prison where they will not need benefits. Stop benefits altogether and those in greatest need are hit.
 
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And men, often another part of the problem is help is lopsoded to on group or another. I posted this before but note I was approached by a single dad and he asked me where to get help
I did not know. I reluctantly gave money and went home to look up where people can get help and print out a list.
I got rather sad but glad I gave the money as there was literally no place for a single dad 😦
Moms with kids
Women
Drug addict single men

That is all the help there is…

That sucks. Single dads should have help available to them if they need it.
I agree with you there is little assistance out there for single men. There are two reasons for this, but concede they are not the only reasons. One is irrespective of the fact may not agree with it or like it society continues to perceive caring for children as primarily a woman’s responsibility. There are more stay at home dad’s today and dad’s who are very hand’s on in caring for children, but it continues to be the case more woman than men care for young children at home, work part-time so they can care for their children, and engaged in family and child-centered occupations. Thus, resources are targeted towards women to a greater extent and strategies are developed with primarily women in mind.

The other reason is woman are more inclined to ask for help and join forces to secure help than men, making them more effective as a pressure group. This is not a criticism of single men - merely an observation. Gay men are very effective as a pressure group. Irrespective of our individual or collective views on homosexuality this cannot be denied.

More assistance for single men will only come about when they can equal woman and gay men in terms of their effectiveness as a pressure group.
 
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I agree with you there is little assistance out there for single men. There are two reasons for this, but concede they are not the only reasons. One is irrespective of the fact may not agree with it or like it society continues to perceive caring for children as primarily a woman’s responsibility. There are more stay at home dad’s today and dad’s who are very hand’s on in caring for children, but it continues to be the case more woman than men care for young children at home, work part-time so they can care for their children, and engaged in family and child-centered occupations. Thus, resources are targeted towards women to a greater extent and strategies are developed with primarily women in mind.

The other reason is woman are more inclined to ask for help and join forces to secure help than men, making them more effective as a pressure group. This is not a criticism of single men - merely an observation. Gay men are very effective as a pressure group. Irrespective of our individual or collective views on homosexuality this cannot be denied.

More assistance for single men will only come about when they can equal woman and gay men in terms of their effectiveness as a pressure group.
As more and more men get custody of children after a divorce, there will be more and more single Dads.

Most single parents I know are single Dads with Mom paying child support.
 
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As more and more men get custody of children after a divorce, there will be more and more single Dads.

Most single parents I know are single Dads with Mom paying child support.
There is no doubt more men are single parents today than in the past, but according to national statistics 90% of single parents in the UK are women. That is what I based my assertion on.

gingerbread.org.uk/content/365/Statistics

According to statistics available on line the majority of single parents in the US are women, and single parenting is now ‘the norm.’

singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/
 
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