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Interesting that our experiences have been different-I have several complaints from individuals who felt ignored and left out by someone who spoke only to their spouse during a conversation.I’ll address that analogy --the point of course is that nowhere do we consider that in prayer to Mary we are praying to ‘her alone’.
The whole problem with the OP and the scenario is this ‘disconnect’ in which an unnatural separation and a presumptive ‘unnatural focus’ is presented as ‘truth’.
Prayer to Mary is never ‘instead of’ prayer to Jesus, but rather to be considered an addition.
Therefore in the analogy, it would be considered that in speaking to the husband, we are automatically including the wife–that they are hearing us ‘together’ and that even if we say, “hubby” they hear ‘hubby and wife’; likewise, if we address the wife as ‘wife’, she AND he are automatically hearing, "wife and hubby’.
Because of course any analogy using purely ‘human’ examples is bound to come up short of being able to accurately represent a ‘divine’ example. Christ and his saints in heaven are not bounded by the limitations of ‘earthbound’ humanity.
I had a similar experience this week with people who came to do presentations at work-a subject matter expert and a technical person. I made sure to speak with both, address both by name and make sure they were both consulted on things. before leaving yesterday, both of them commented positively on my including the technician and how both of them find it awkward and uncomfortable when another SME ignores the technical person to “talk shop”.
Analogies are imperfect, but to bring this one around to a conclusion-to spend the day praying “Hail Marys” and say that the time was spent speaking to Jesus still doesn’t ring true.
I find it interesting how quotes are placed around terms in your replies that aren’t actually quoting something in the post to which a response is being given. Perhaps this accounts for some of the disconnect in these discussions.
Which leaves us yet again with the multiple Apostolic examples of people being pointed to the Father via Jesus.