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lwilday
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I’m new here and would like my first post to be here in the Prayer Intentions section of CAF. My request is for family harmony within my family.
I am married (38 yrs) with 2 grown children and 2 granddaughters all back to live under our roof again after having an empty nest for several years. Due to some crazy circumstances in both son and daughter’s lives they have returned home. To say our house is full is an understatement. The full is not the problem, sometimes I feel like a referee.
My daughter feels like her brother is just a leech and takes advantage of us. My son has done jail time, paid his debt to society and is now back home for 3 years. I have stood up for him recently because he’s been out of work (due to a very serious shoulder surgery) since the summer returning to work tomorrow. During his recovery he has basically done nothing (except be on his laptop) and she resents that he contributes nothing to the family…no money for food or small chores around the house. I know she is partially correct and hope that once he is collecting a paycheck again things will change a little because he will not be financially ready to move out for awhile.
I know that my daughter is angry not only about the present situation, but also about what he put us through in the past. It was a bad time for all of us and I have tried to get past all that and look to the future. But right now things look shaky.
Thank you all for your prayers.
Linda
I am married (38 yrs) with 2 grown children and 2 granddaughters all back to live under our roof again after having an empty nest for several years. Due to some crazy circumstances in both son and daughter’s lives they have returned home. To say our house is full is an understatement. The full is not the problem, sometimes I feel like a referee.
My daughter feels like her brother is just a leech and takes advantage of us. My son has done jail time, paid his debt to society and is now back home for 3 years. I have stood up for him recently because he’s been out of work (due to a very serious shoulder surgery) since the summer returning to work tomorrow. During his recovery he has basically done nothing (except be on his laptop) and she resents that he contributes nothing to the family…no money for food or small chores around the house. I know she is partially correct and hope that once he is collecting a paycheck again things will change a little because he will not be financially ready to move out for awhile.
I know that my daughter is angry not only about the present situation, but also about what he put us through in the past. It was a bad time for all of us and I have tried to get past all that and look to the future. But right now things look shaky.
Thank you all for your prayers.
Linda