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Mrs_Sally
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I’ve been away for a bit also and just saw this update. I will offer my Mass tomorrow morning for your health and for your daughter’s married life.
Thank you for your prayers. I’m not feeling very well these days. I ask that you remember me in your prayers.
Also, I want to thank those who were interested in my daughter’s wedding. The wedding took place on April 6, the evening before Divine Mercy Sunday. It was a beautiful wedding. I had the honor of planning the liturgy. It was quite beautiful, in Greek and Latin with lots of candles, incense, organ music and sacred polyphony. There were many priests, deacons and brothers on the sanctuary. There were also many religious sisters in the congregation.
I had the joy of walking my daughter down the aisle along with my son. The three of us are the only remaining members of our immediate family. We thought it appropriate that father and brother give away the bride. She said that she wanted to walk down the aisle with the two men who had been, as she put it “My anchor (father) and my lifeboat (brother).”
For a while, it was touch and go whether I would be able to attend the wedding at all. After some creative thinking, it was possible. She married a wonderful young man who is a very good Catholic. They are off to a great start. They pray together daily and attend daily mass as well as confession together (not in the booth at the same time). They are committed to serving and protecting the voiceless. My new son-in-law is very active in pro-life ministry and my daughter is active in ministry to people with disabilities. They have a truly Franciscan home.
I want to thank those who remembered the wedding and who prayed for them and for me. Please know that even though I’m not here as often as I was, you are all in my daily prayers. I pray daily for those who struggle with the faith, for those who are struggling with the changes in the Church, who are looking for their place in the Church and who are looking to understand. I also pray that God will give all of you and your families that great love and passion for his Church that he has given to me. If I died today and went to hell (which I hope not), I would die with gratitude in my heart and mind for the gift of the Church, warts and all.
If I could leave all of you one single message it would be to repeat what has so often been said, “Be children of the Church.” Mother can make prudential mistakes, like all mothers do; but there is only one Mother. Love her. Cherish her. Obey her. Live and die in her bosom.
I will return as soon as I feel better.
I remain, always your brother,
Brother JR

