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You all are so kind in your prayers. Luis had his surgery on Friday and did great. The doctor is hoping that this will work and that fluid build up will not occur again in the future for that could happen. If it does, a shunt will be put in next surgery. The name of the surgery he had was an Endosopic Third Ventriculostomy. He continues to be in pain, headaches, but they give him Tylenol with Codeine for pain. His major problem is his dad. His dad doesn’t understand the concept of resting in the hospital and that his son is not allowed to be playing as he usually does. The dad called my sister today and told her that was on his way with some friends and one of Luis’ friend. Luis was happy to see him but his dad brought legos and they build a car and next thing you know both of the boys were on the floor playing rough with the cars. My sister corrected him three times and told him to get into bed for he is not suppose to over do it, but his dad said to allow him to play. Well, the kid listened to his dad. After his dad left and the little boy too, Luis was in extreme pain. He had a severe headache. They had to give him medications. The nurses hooked him up to the EKG monitors and Oxygen saturation monitor. It took his pulse as well and his respiration. The nurses could monitor it from their station. I arrived when he was sleeping and all hooked up. I took the time to talk to my sister and ask if that little friend was coming back tomorrow and she said yes. I told her that if Luis was my son, I would talk to my ex and tell him to keep the boy home and Luis can see him when he is all better for he is still recovering and should not be playing on the floor. I know Luis won’t listen for he wanted to play again on the floor tonight with my daughter, but I would not allow it. It was right after the nurse made a deal with him that if she unhooked him he has to only play card games and take it easy. I saw how he doesn’t listen and told my sister to call her ex and tell him not to bring the boy tomorrow. I called the rest of my family and told them to limit visitation for Luis had way too many visitors today and over did it. The worse visitor was his friend Cody who his dad brought. It is not Cody’s fault, for boys will be boys, but his dad should realize his son is recovering from brain surgery. The dad texted by sister after she left a message saying that the nurse say Luis over did it today and she asked him to keep the boy home. He texted back and said it was fine. Tomorrow he is only going to see his sister and my husband who will bring him and his mother Holy Communion. He needs to rest. Oh yes, he will see his dad too. His dad said he was going to bring more friends, but he changed his mind. Thank God.
We were praying his dad would be more sensitive to his son, but so far we have not seen it. He missed seeing his son before he went into surgery and then blamed the hospital staff. Luis was disappointed. Luis and my sister had to be at the hospital at 11 a.m. and she told her ex to be there at that time. They prep him for surgery fast and took him in early to surgery. He was in surgery by noon even though the time was suppose to be 1 p.m. The dad was livid, but my sister told him that is why he should have been there at 11 a.m. with them. Then he got mad when the boy was asking for his mother when he was coming out of anesthesia. As far as Luis knew, he dad was not there for he only remembers his mom being at his side before surgery. I hope all this will help the dad wake up.
But Luis was smiling tonight. He still had some angry behavior, but he has swelling still and we are hoping that once that is down he will be better. The doctor told my sister that where he had the most fluid pressure in the right frontal lobe, that is where our temperament is controlled.
Thanks for your prayers and please continue. He continues to be in pain. I hope tomorrow when he receives Communion, he will feel even better.
We were praying his dad would be more sensitive to his son, but so far we have not seen it. He missed seeing his son before he went into surgery and then blamed the hospital staff. Luis was disappointed. Luis and my sister had to be at the hospital at 11 a.m. and she told her ex to be there at that time. They prep him for surgery fast and took him in early to surgery. He was in surgery by noon even though the time was suppose to be 1 p.m. The dad was livid, but my sister told him that is why he should have been there at 11 a.m. with them. Then he got mad when the boy was asking for his mother when he was coming out of anesthesia. As far as Luis knew, he dad was not there for he only remembers his mom being at his side before surgery. I hope all this will help the dad wake up.
But Luis was smiling tonight. He still had some angry behavior, but he has swelling still and we are hoping that once that is down he will be better. The doctor told my sister that where he had the most fluid pressure in the right frontal lobe, that is where our temperament is controlled.
Thanks for your prayers and please continue. He continues to be in pain. I hope tomorrow when he receives Communion, he will feel even better.