Prayers to mend a relationship

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I have been going through some very rough times during the last four months. Tami, the woman I love apparently doesn’t feel the same for me. My heart has been badly broken. All my prayers haven’t seemed to help mend this rift between us. I don’t know what to do. God brought her back into my life after 12 years apart. Why would He do that, if He knew she wouldn’t want me? My dispair and depression are very deep.
I just want to die. If it wasn’t a mortal sin, I might have ended my life by now. I keep hoping God has some plan to help me win the love of the woman, I considered my soulmate.
Please pray for me. Thank you for your time
 
May the Lord minister deeply to you as you draw closer to Him…Ask Him to show you what He wants you to learn through this…Cast your cares on Him for He cares for you…
 
Richard_J said:
I have been going through some very rough times during the last four months. Tami, the woman I love apparently doesn’t feel the same for me. My heart has been badly broken. All my prayers haven’t seemed to help mend this rift between us. I don’t know what to do. God brought her back into my life after 12 years apart. Why would He do that, if He knew she wouldn’t want me? My dispair and depression are very deep.
I just want to die. If it wasn’t a mortal sin, I might have ended my life by now. I keep hoping God has some plan to help me win the love of the woman, I considered my soulmate.
Please pray for me. Thank you for your time
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Richard,

You are in my prayers!
 
I pray that you come to a deep experience of God’s love for you …that you would see yourself through His eyes and that you will be conscious of His love for you and know in your heart that He is taking care of you and that He will never abandon you. May God’s Holy Spirit comfort you and make you whole again. God is good and God is love.

Jeremiah 29:11
" Yes, I know what plans I have in mind for you, Yahweh declares, plans for peace, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope."

God Bless
marialucia
 
marialucia said:
I pray that you come to a deep experience of God’s love for you …that you would see yourself through His eyes and that you will be conscious of His love for you and know in your heart that He is taking care of you and that He will never abandon you. May God’s Holy Spirit comfort you and make you whole again. God is good and God is love.

Jeremiah 29:11
" Yes, I know what plans I have in mind for you, Yahweh declares, plans for peace, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope."

God Bless
marialucia
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Amen to this…His ways and thoughts are much higher than ours…
 
Praying for things to turn out for the better for you Richard …
 
Broken hearts are no fun at all, I know the feeling well. But just TRUST that God will take care of you and your heart and bring you to the person you are suppose to be with. This is all we can do is put it in God’s hands and trust that the pain now will be easily forgotten when the right person or the right time is there.

I am in the same boat and trying to do the same thing, I know its hard, but there isn’t anything better we can do. God will take care of you in his time, which is the right time. Keep smiling!!
 
Thank you AZ
You are right. It is entirely up to God and His wisdom. He will show me the way.
Tami has recently started a new relationship with someone she grew up with. The pain is still there, but with the help of my friends (milletsmo) and family, I will get through this.
God Bless you:)
I will pray for your broken heart as well!
 
Richard_J said:
I have been going through some very rough times during the last four months. Tami, the woman I love apparently doesn’t feel the same for me. My heart has been badly broken. All my prayers haven’t seemed to help mend this rift between us. I don’t know what to do. God brought her back into my life after 12 years apart. Why would He do that, if He knew she wouldn’t want me? My dispair and depression are very deep.
I just want to die. If it wasn’t a mortal sin, I might have ended my life by now. I keep hoping God has some plan to help me win the love of the woman, I considered my soulmate.
Please pray for me. Thank you for your time
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You can’t see through your pain right now I know…but He loves you and cares deeply about you. Again, you may not realize this but you will…I will be praying. You are not alone.:highprayer::crossrc:
mlz
 
Lord, be with your son Richard, give him strength in his difficulties and patience and peace.

We ask this through our Lord Jesus Christ.
Amen.
 
Thank you mlz and LynnNH
Your prayers are very much appreciated. My heart is still broken, but my spirit is still strong.
I pray every day to try to better understand what God is telling me. If He wants Tami and I to be together, then it will happen. If not, I hope He will soon bring into my life, the woman who will be my life partner. Then I can, at last, put this pain behind me.
Thank you again for your prayers, I still need them!🙂
 
Richard_J said:
Thank you mlz and LynnNH
Your prayers are very much appreciated. My heart is still broken, but my spirit is still strong.
I pray every day to try to better understand what God is telling me. If He wants Tami and I to be together, then it will happen. If not, I hope He will soon bring into my life, the woman who will be my life partner. Then I can, at last, put this pain behind me.
Thank you again for your prayers, I still need them!🙂
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Continuing in prayer for you, trust in Him, He loves you more than anyone could:crossrc:mlz
 
I’m sad for you Richard, but it’s good to see you are doing the best you can manage to handle your grief and loss with faith.
two years ago my son was saying, “mum, I’m devastated.” I phoned or Skyped or emailed him every day for a while as he went through the worst of his grief.
This month he became engaged to someone he didn’t know back then.

I ask You Lord to heal Richard’s heart, and if in their best interests, to heal his relationship with Tami, or lead him to a truly wholesome and faithful relationship.

The girl my son broke his heart over couldn’t love as he loved, but his fiancée is so enormously delighted about having my son in her life. She’s even counting the number of sleeps before they get married early next year! You deserve to be loved as much as you love.
 
Thank you Trishie,
Your words are very kind.
My father and a few friends have kept me going through the worst period of my life.
I still don’t yet understand why God would bring Tami back into my life after 12 years apart, only to take her away again. I guess He has His reasons.
I’m glad your son has found a true love, to share his life with. I wish them joy and happiness in their future.
Thank you again for your prayers. They are very much needed and appreciated.
I hope God will bring a special lady into my life, like He has for your son with your future daughter in law.
Maybe it will be Tami or maybe someone I have yet to meet. Time will tell.
God Bless you Trishie!🙂
 
Hi Richard you have had some very wise counsel all I would add is you are in my prayers and remember we are all each responsible for our own actions, not God.So your ex is responsible for doing what she does and you are responsible for doing what you do.God cannot interfere as our life here on earth is about us making a choice for the right path or the wrong path.We have freewill and we must choose how to use it.God cannot make somoene love us or be faithful etc.We, by our actions make things possibel or not.
It is so painful when people break up with us or do not feel the same way as we do.My youngest son is going through a really hard time right now.His gf the mother of his child is behaving hurtfully towards him.God cannot make her behave differently only she can.I pray God gives my son the strength to cope and that they will be able to better communicate etc.

You sound wonderful and any young lady would be lucky to have you.In time you will meet another and you will love again stronger than before just as Trishie said about her son.I am so sorry for your suffering I know it is very painful & overwhelming

May God bless you and surround you with His love as you go through the grieving process of the end of a relationship.

Saint Francis de Sales (1567-1622)
Do not look forward to the changes and chances of this life with fear. Rather, look to them with full confidence that, as they arise, God to whom you belong will in his love enable you to profit by them. He has guided you thus far in life. Do you but hold fast to His dear hand, and He will lead you safely through all trials. Whenever you cannot stand, He will carry you lovingly in his arms.
Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow. The same Eternal Father who takes care of you today will take care of you tomorrow, and every day of your life. Either He will shield you from suffering or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it.
Be at peace then, and put aside all useless thoughts, all vain dreads and all anxious imaginations.
 
A Novena Prayer to the Sacred Heart of Jesus
Sacred Heart of Jesus, we know that there is but one thing impossible to You: to be without pity for those who are in suffering or distress. Look down on us, we beg of You and grant us the grace which we humbly and earnestly implore, through the Immaculate Heart of Your most sorrowful Mother to whom You confided us as her children, and whose prayers are all powerful with You. Amen.
 
Continuing in prayer for you, trust in Him, He loves you more than anyone could!
mlz
 
tbcrawford 244rocket, and mlz,
Thank you for your prayers. You are right, I have been given very wise advice on this site. The prayers of all these good people have been a big help to me.
tbcrawford, I hope you are right, when you say I will find another, and love stronger.
I really thought that was what was happening with Tami and I.
I opened my heart to her, more than I had ever done before, with anyone else. Maybe that is the biggest part of the hurt I feel. 🤷 To give all I had to give and be rejected by the one I love. That still hurts.
I truely hope there is “the right lady” out there somewhere. I am almost 48 years old and apparently still haven’t found her.
Sometimes it feels like I’m running out of time, to love, marry and start a family.
I just have to keep my faith that God will one day introduce me to my partner in life.
Thank you again for your prayers. They have made a difficult time a little easier to get through.

God Bless you !
 
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