At Trent,
As the poster who wrote the first reply to your post, I can say in all honesty, that it is this type of attitude that keeps me away from more “traditional circles”, much to my own dismay.
I want to know how, when I was speaking from
my own experience, in my own community, you can blame me for having an over 30 page thread closed?
You asked a question, and asked for comments regarding the answers, which is exactly what I did, ***in light of my own experiences! ***
I have copied my reply in that thread below. Please point out where I introduced division, all I did was call out the “division” I have experienced being a post-VII Catholic from some of my more “traditional” brethren.
***I have a EF Mass available in my diocese every Sunday, in a parish that is about 3 miles from my home. Most of the time it is a “low Mass”, but usually once a month there is a “high Mass”.
I have never been, even though I would like to.,
so I did not vote in your poll, as you do not have an answer that would suit my needs.
What is keeping me from going?
Attitudes of many (NOT ALL!!!) of the “traditional set” in my community.
Every thing from the “OF is an abomination” to “I lack spirituality and am not “Catholic” enough.”
We also have a couple of very traditional OF parishes in my area, where I have been told to “Get out of my pew”, “You don’t belong to this parish, why are you here?” and a few things that I will not comment on.
I am not saying that this happens everywhere or even all the time, but it has made me shy away from more “traditionally minded people”, as I find many of them to be hypocritical and very un-Christian.
The Pope has said, time and time again that the OF is the “norm” and that the EF, can and should be celebrated but not instead of the OF.
Now, all I know is the OF (we both celebrated our 40th this year), and in many cases have been told that “I don’t know what being Catholic is all about”, because of it.
Sorry, with that kind of attitude, I will stay with my OF parish, abuses and all, and hope that my prayerful and respectful presence there can help to be an example to others. ***