I.m.h.o., the bottom line is this:
Do we, or do we not truly believe/assent to the OHCAC as receiving, in its head and through its appointed leaders, the gift of the Holy Spirit which Jesus promised to us in Scripture. The guidance of the Church, through the Holy Spirit, makes it incontrovertible that the ordained (ministerial) priesthood is male. That fact is a role, a function. It does not establish a hierarchy of importance relative to gender. Women have not only important roles in the Church, but critical roles and irreplaceable roles, and in leadership. Nor does the differentiation of roles pertain to the Gifts of the Spirit, which is something else entirely.
Those of us who have been the beneficiaries of wisdom and other inspiration from wonderful Sisters and lay female leaders have experienced what is also in the theology and spirituality of Catholicism: men are not “above” women in the Church in terms of value to the Church, and certainly not in terms of value before God. Men are side by side with women, playing different roles. God does not “respect” (judge by) position. That is scriptural, by the way.
Second, the activity and mental energy of any Church member should be personal sanctification and nothing else (which includes of course love of neighbor, which is central to that road). As a woman, I don’t understand all the fuss about the topic, never have. Why? Because when I enter any Catholic Church, there is God Himself. That’s the Center, that’s the activity, that’s the mental energy. There’s nothing political about it. He transcends everything, and in His presence, everything else is meaningless by comparison.
The priest for me is in persona Christi when he confects those sacraments. Therefore, the priest must be male, not female. And the sacraments and Christ’s presence are what is important – not some off-topic political battle which has nothing to do with the centrality of God. Anyone who makes this an issue has lost the entire message.
God is genderless.
Jesus had and has gender.
Jesus’ ordained ministers have a specified gender. They are not both genders or bi-gendered or transgendered.
Gender is relevant to function and not to spiritual status or to equal and full accessibility to God, or to the ability to share/minister to others in roles other than sacramental.
God is as fully accessible to every female as God is to every male, in whatever position.
God is universal; he is not restricted to one gender, and is beyond such categories. God is not “contained” inside a (male) priest. That’s a ridiculous concept for an infinite God. And it’s why the “battle” for female priesthood is an absurd “battle.”