Hello Folks.
Here are some thoughts from a guy on the inside…
As a priest I wear my blacks/collar at all times while at the parish, while out doing parish business, or sacramental duties. There is a ministry all it’s own in simply wearing the blacks. It does set an example and make a statement that people need to see. However, while running errands like grocery shopping or things of that nature, I often dress down a bit, such as wearing a casual shirt of having my collar out, simply because it does get very aggravating having everybody asking me ridiculous questions, hassling me for cash (which I don’t have much of) snooping around in my shopping cart (literally), and basically interrogating every move I make.
As a diocesan priest, I have taken a vow of celibacy and obedience. As someone pointed out already, we do not take a vow of poverty. We live in the secular world and serve in the secular world and we do have to provide for ourselves (besides housing and some food costs). We earn a fairly meager salary and we have to also provide for our own retirement, not to mention pay massive amounts of taxes because we’re considered, “self-employed.” And yes, priests (and all Christians) should strive to live simply, but also practically. I bought a new truck last year, because in the long run it’s much cheaper than putting tons of cash in some run down piece of junk every month.
Here in St. Louis we get 4 weeks of vacation, and a week for retreat. When I take a week or two off to get away and regain my sanity, I do get a lot of snide remarks such as…“Oh, it sure must be nice father!” Keep in mind that we work weekends and holidays and put in 12-14 hour days on a fairly regular basis. It’s very easy to get burned out. If we don’t take the time to get away and catch our breath, then we are no good to anybody.
Anyhow, that’s my take on things.
God Bless.
