Two or three quick comments.
** 1. There are two or three situations in which I think abortion may be the lesser evil**. One story. I know a family some years ago that had six young children. As devout Catholics they practiced the churc-approved method of birth control - rather nervously. Her doctor had warned them that another pregnancy would very possibly mean her death and the death of the baby. Alas, she became pregnant. The doctor recommended an early abortion. Their priest said trust God. They went with the priest. She and the baby died, leaving six young motherless children and a grieving and angry husband. He takes every opportunity now to attack the church. The family became Episcopalian.
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**2. How many innocent people die in wars?** Millions upon millions, including babies in the womb. What - over 100,000 Iragis killed, and the church is rather quiet about it. Was it 60,000,000 that died in World War II. And we could go on. I sometimes wonder why we can become so vociferous when it comes to abortion but rather quiet when it comes to shells and bombs that take so many innocent lives.
** 3. The biggest cause of abortion is the miscarriage**. Who is responsible for those? If God can decide which babies should live and which should die - some might argue - can’t mothers have a say as to whether they are physically, psychologically and financially fit to cope with additional children?
** 4. There really is no proof, apart from church teaching, as to when life in any meaningful sense begins.** I believe Augustine thought it was two months after conception. Could this mean that a first trimester abortion is different from a later abortion? Maybe there’s a moral argument there.
** 5. As many politicians argue, one can be against abortion but not make it a crime.** Most women who seek and have abortions have suffered enough already without punishing them further.
** 6. I recall one woman, many years ago, who had an illegal abortion**. It was done in an unsafe, unhygienic environment, and she died, leaving a husband and several young children. The idea that abortions should be as rare and and as safe as possible may make some sense.
** 7. There is consolation - some would suggest - that babies who are aborted go directly to heaven**, now that limbo seems to have been discarded. So, maybe our tears should not be so much for them as for those women who were under such stress that they sought an abortion.
** 8. I know of one woman who was raped, became pregnant, and was so traumatized by it all that she was determined to commit suicide.** Her devout Catholic mother, who could not convince her to have the child adopted, etc., finally talked her into an abortion instead. Later, the young woman was married, had a fine family, and lived a happy life.
I am generally against abortion. But I do believe there are exceptional situations.