Pro-Choice folks, what are your reasons for supporting abortion?

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The fetus, is not aware that it exists, and does not during early gestation feel pain.
Just one question…
How do you know?

Is it because some scientist proclaimed that it cannot be so?
Is it an article of faith on your part?
Did God tell you this?

How do you know?:confused:
 
There is no medical necessity to abort a baby, most especially after 3 mos. This is a big reason the late term abortion ban passed. No doctor or case could be found where it was medically necessary to abort a baby.
Unfortunately, this is not true. Late term abortion is still legal, just one type of abortion is not legal, partial birth abortion. I live in a state where abortion can occur for whatever reason up until 24 weeks. A 24 week baby, does not look like a “lump of cells”. They are “viable” with medical intervention. Looking through the yellow pages one can see “clinics” advertising abortion up until 24 weeks.

Actually, an 8 week baby doesn’t look like a lump of cells. An 8 week embryo (is actually about 6 weeks old, pregnancy is dated usually from the date of the last menstrual period) has recognizable body parts (head, arm buds) a heart beat. Not anything at all like a lump of cells.

In my own experience, the woman’s body changes and adapts to protect the life within her. Subtle changes, like the suppression of the immune system and even changes in the sense of smell, happen to protect the small human within. These changes don’t happen when a person has a tumor,

The idea that a person is not required to take care of another makes no sense. A woman and her own unborn child, are not just a casual relationship. They are mother and child. A mom cannot decide to abandon her newborn, or decide to stop feeding it.
 
Unfortunately, this is not true. Late term abortion is still legal, just one type of abortion is not legal, partial birth abortion. I live in a state where abortion can occur for whatever reason up until 24 weeks. A 24 week baby, does not look like a “lump of cells”. They are “viable” with medical intervention. Looking through the yellow pages one can see “clinics” advertising abortion up until 24 weeks.

Actually, an 8 week baby doesn’t look like a lump of cells. An 8 week embryo (is actually about 6 weeks old, pregnancy is dated usually from the date of the last menstrual period) has recognizable body parts (head, arm buds) a heart beat. Not anything at all like a lump of cells.

In my own experience, the woman’s body changes and adapts to protect the life within her. Subtle changes, like the suppression of the immune system and even changes in the sense of smell, happen to protect the small human within. These changes don’t happen when a person has a tumor,

The idea that a person is not required to take care of another makes no sense. A woman and her own unborn child, are not just a casual relationship. They are mother and child. A mom cannot decide to abandon her newborn, or decide to stop feeding it.
My daughter, who had great difficulty getting pregnant, had an ultrasound every month – and would email us the pictures. At 12 to 13 weeks, she sent us one where we could clearly see our grand daughter sucking her thumb.

How could any mother see that and choose to kill her child?
 
No, but people have a right not to live in poverty and not suffer. I suppose some reasons of aborting fetuses are justified.

So it is ok to murder so that the person murdered does not live in poverty? Who desides what poverty is? Is it based on Uganda or the USA? If it is Uganda then no one in the USA would be considered in poverty.

What constitutes suffering? Physical pain? Mental anguish? Who desides?

Ok fine, but I want a managerial state too.
You want a nanny state. Who would you choose to be the nanny? Someone like Hitler? Or someone like Speaker Pelosi? Or maybe the Holy Father? Bush? Is your nanny state one that would care for you from birth to death? If so at birth, five minutes after birth so the state can see if the baby should live? At death, natural or when the state no longer desires to continue supporting you?

Does personal responsibility come into play at any time?

A nanny state that is not God controlled is not a place I would want to live.
 
As the Facebook group says, “Being a former fetus…I am naturally pro-life!” That is my basic reason. We were all fetuses at some point, we are all people now. You can’t kill a baby once it’s born, why can you kill it before it’s born?

I also have seven (soon to be eight) younger siblings, so this viewpoint is reinforced. Also, one of my favorite people in this world was born when her mother was 17. I know what I thankfully did not have to miss out on.
 
There are many reasons why a person may want an abortion. There are all the big ticket items, such as rape, extreme poverty, and damaging health toward the mother.

I won’t get into those.
Then I will. The Big Ticket Items, are not what you listed.

74% concerned about how having baby would change her life

73% can’t afford baby now

48% has problems with relationship or wants to avoid single parenthood

Additionally:

38% would interfere with education plans
38% would interfere with career plans

38% has all the children she wanted or all children are grown

32% unready
32% would interfere with care of children or dependents

Rape: 1%
Health: 12%

So, the Big Ticket Items, are all selfish ones, and ones that have been dealt with by the overwhelming majority of people prior to WW2.

The 4th & 5th spots, are directly attributed to feminism.

So go ahead, kill your own. End the gene pool.

hp://www.johnstonsarchive.net/policy/abortion/abreasons.html#2
 
Their point was, they didn’t want to be reduced to that indignity.

Plenty of “catholics” do actually support abortion regardless of the official stance on it, including every catholic friend I have , except one. The OP was asking this on a Catholic forum and wanted responses. Some of those responses, will not be religiously motivated obviously and some will.
Then they are committing mortal sin…as it has been stated time and time again that you cannot support intrinsic evil.
 
I support abortion, but I’m not sure why this topic is every raised, since the OP of such topic is not usually interested in Answers, but in arguments. But just in case they are seeking genuine answers…

I do believe that life is very precious. By that I mean all life, not just human life. Life is precious to me, because it took an incredibly long time to get here, through an incredibly labourious process, and is such an unbelievable miracle. I think it should be preserved as much as we possibly can.

Now, abortion is a situation that I consider to be unique in and of itself. I do not support captial punishment, I do support euthanasia, and I do support a “just” war(though that’s a slippery slope).

I won’t get into the other “life” debates as specified above, but for me, each situation needs to be looked at, for its individual merits/lackthereof. Let me make this very, very clear to those that are interested. I DO NOT BELIEVE there is one set of absolute rules that apply to every given situation. This is often a big difference between me, and the pro-life crowd.

Abortion involves one life, living off another. One body, being reliant on another. The fetus, is not aware that it exists, and does not during early gestation feel pain. The mother, is aware she exists and does feel pain.

I pick the human, who is self-aware over the one that is not. I recognize it is not the infants fault, and that it is not the choice I would prefer to be made for that infant.

But, that is my choice.

There are many reasons why a person may want an abortion. There are all the big ticket items, such as rape, extreme poverty, and damaging health toward the mother.

I won’t get into those.

The area that I think a lot of people are MORE affected by, is abortion occuring in societies, and for individuals that have no apparent reason to do so. They can afford the child. They could have afforded contraception, they could have abstained(IE they weren’t raped). It is a tough one.

I support abortion up to 3 months, and longer if medically necessary.

I think that abortion should only follow councelling and I think that women should very clearly know what abortion actually IS. There is nothing more devastating, than to think you are getting rid of a collection of cells, only to find out that your baby was almost viable.

Many, MANY abortion clinics agree, there is way too much secrecy around abortion and not enough clarification of what it is.

There are many more “elements” of the discussin I could get into, but these are the main ones.
You need to go back and read the Cathechism of the Church…I can’t actually believe that people believe that the denying of life…the TAKING of life…is acceptable…this sickens me!

You know…its really a simple thing…you don’t want a baby…BE RESPONSIBLE and DON’T COMMIT THE ACT that MAY cause PREGNANCY!

Of course, expecting that women actually THINK BEFORE they “pleasure themselves” is TOO MUCH to ask right???

:rolleyes:
 
What is it that makes so many vehemently pro-abortion. I understand the abortion providers are there to make money and therefore do whatever in there power to support and keep abortion legal. What about the ordinary ‘lay’ people? What is their motivation? Past guilt? Close friends or family members who have had an abortion? Strong and innate resolve that women’s choices supercede innocent people’s very life itself?
Its both money…as well as selfishness…those who have no problem with the murder of the most weakest and needy among us…have no sympathy, no heart and no concern for anyone but themselves!

As Blessed Mother Teresa says:

“It is a poverty to decide that a child must die so that you may live as you wish.”
 
But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child, a direct killing of the innocent child, murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another? - Blessed Mother Teresa
 
It is also a fact that an 8 week embryo is not sentient, and cannot suffer.
What does this mean? What exactly do you mean by “not sentient”? What physiology is absent that inhibits suffering?
 
Perhaps if enough people ask that same question, they will be compelled to leave the discussion or answer for the outrageous conjecture.
 
What does this mean? What exactly do you mean by “not sentient”? What physiology is absent that inhibits suffering?
Hmm. Sentient:

1 : responsive to or conscious of sense impressions <sentient beings> 2 : aware 3 : finely sensitive in perception or feeling

For aware:

1archaic : watchful, wary 2**:** having or showing realization, perception, or knowledge

So, sticking with definition 1 of sentient, yes, an embyro exhibits signs of sentience in that the embryo can and does respond to changes in its environment. Regarding definition 2, which takes us to definition 2 of aware, it would seem as if an embryo is not sentient. Then again, using that definition, neither is my cat, so I guess that means I can torture Puddy with impunity since she can’t suffer. Definition 3 of sentient also seems to rule out embyros, but also would seem to rule out (again) my cat as well possibly infants. So now we’re suddenly okay with killing infants because they can’t suffer either.

Or, perhaps, the argument that it’s okay to kill a human because that human isn’t sentient really doesn’t amount to much of an argument.

– Mark L. Chance.
 
Perhaps if enough people ask that same question, they will be compelled to leave the discussion or answer for the outrageous conjecture.
Compelled due to pride, because there appears to be no legitimate reason that can stand up to be adequately rationalized. Once the rational argument runs out, there is nothing left but to wallow in ones own self deceit.
 
I have found many folks in the pro-choice crowd to be adamant in not wanting to be exposed to the reality of what it is they support. This includes graphic descriptions as well as graphic images of choice they support. Out of sight, out of mind.
Forgive me, but I posted this very story on another thread, but it fits in here as well:

I think I can offer a somewhat unique perspective. Quite serendipitously, I came to an ironic discovery about the abortion issue, having been a writing teacher.

I taught college level writing courses for six years, mostly freshman composition classes, at public colleges where proselytizing for any religion is illegal. For argument essays, students wanted to tackle “hot button” topics like capital punishment, gun control, stem-cell research, abortion, topics so overplayed in the media that for a writing teacher they have become clichés; as well, they’re highly prone to plagiarism as pirated essays of this kind abound on the Internet. The status quo arguments have little power to persuade anymore; many students were numb, or merely parroting back what they’d heard without reasoning it out for themselves. Despite the fact that these are important issues, I took the position of “outlawing” them, my excuse being that students rarely bring anything “new” to the table, which predictably caused rebellion. I’d say, “Let’s take abortion for example.” I began by reviewing **connotation **(the emotional associations we have with words) and **denotation **(their dictionary definitions). I asked students to call out words with “negative” connotations about children: rug-rat, ankle-biter, condom mishap (not making that one up), snot-nosed brat, etc. Then I asked for overall “positive” connotations about children: *child, infant, toddler, baby *(which are really *neutral *terms, but in light of the preceding negative ones, they *seem *positive), bundle-of-joy, mamma’s little angel, etc. I gave the typical spiel about how overly positive or negative terminology betrays a non-objective attitude, a bias. Then, I asked for medical terminology: *zygote, blastocyst, embryo, fetus *(for the record, few said blastocyst, except nursing students).

Then, with these words in three neat little columns on the board behind me, I told the tragic tale of a student who wrote about abortion for her 10 page research essay, spending **six pages **detailing the different abortion procedures, just to waste space:mad: , without any reasoning of her own. She discussed in graphic detail (I asked for vivid details of course) how the head of the fetus is crushed with forceps, its limbs dismembered, vacuumed up, etc. going into more detail than even many abortion websites do. I remember feeling a bit nauseous as I read (despite already knowing the facts), but thinking “What a strong pro-life essay.” Then, it turned out her thesis was Pro-Choice. I was floored. “This student’s laziness caused her downfall,” I warned my students, “for it was then that *I came to my great ironic discovery that you really cannot argue **for **abortion by **describing *abortions.” :eek:

Strictly speaking, as an argumentative strategy, it just doesn’t make sense. When arguing for abortions, you’re shooting yourself in the foot if you cast any bright light whatsoever on the very thing you’re advocating. A Pro-Life essay uses words with **connotations **most suited to their cause: child, infant, baby, murder, whereas a Pro-Choice essay must rely on zygote, fetus, medical procedure, vacuum aspiration, and no matter how you spin it, in the end, there is no way to disguise the dismemberment of a human body. Once they recognized that irony, my pro-choice students usually became perturbed and yet the fact is that describing abortions in detail is gruesome; when disguised by terms with “neutral” connotations and non-emotionally charged language, they’re almost spooky. It didn’t always change minds but it threw much light on how arguments can be constructed specifically to deceive, and some arguments must deceive in order to succeed.

On the other thread, I ended it differently, but to gear it to this thread, I will say that Pro-Choice is essentially in keeping with the church’s doctrine of free will. The church teaches us what sin is, and Jesus reconciles us to God through the sacraments. My point in re-telling this story is to demonstrate the very real self-deception involved with abortion. I would not want to be the woman who had an abortion and one day grasps the full gravity of what she has done. That’s what the sacrament of reconciliation is for. But sometimes, in the moment of sin, we close our eyes too tightly.

No one will read this post, of course; it’s too long:(
 
No one will read this post, of course; it’s too long:(
I read it 😉
To kind of echo you, I attended a debate on this issue several years ago, and the rules of the debate allowed pictures. So, the pro-life rep brought in pictures, and on cross-examination, the pro-choice rep informed us that visual aides are not normally allowed in regular debate-club events because they provoke emotion.
Some time later, regrettably way too late to pose this question to the debater myself, well, not really a question, but I believe that if you can’t look at something, the process or the result, and say “I’m glad I did this”, then you shouldn’t be doing it. As you correctly noted, pro-choicers shroud abortion however they can because I think many of them can’t even stomach it.
 
Forgive me, but I posted this very story on another thread, but it fits in here as well:

I think I can offer a somewhat unique perspective. Quite serendipitously, I came to an ironic discovery about the abortion issue, having been a writing teacher.

I taught college level writing courses for six years, mostly freshman composition classes, at public colleges where proselytizing for any religion is illegal. For argument essays, students wanted to tackle “hot button” topics like capital punishment, gun control, stem-cell research, abortion, topics so overplayed in the media that for a writing teacher they have become clichés; as well, they’re highly prone to plagiarism as pirated essays of this kind abound on the Internet. The status quo arguments have little power to persuade anymore; many students were numb, or merely parroting back what they’d heard without reasoning it out for themselves. Despite the fact that these are important issues, I took the position of “outlawing” them, my excuse being that students rarely bring anything “new” to the table, which predictably caused rebellion. I’d say, “Let’s take abortion for example.” I began by reviewing **connotation **(the emotional associations we have with words) and **denotation **(their dictionary definitions). I asked students to call out words with “negative” connotations about children: rug-rat, ankle-biter, condom mishap (not making that one up), snot-nosed brat, etc. Then I asked for overall “positive” connotations about children: *child, infant, toddler, baby *(which are really *neutral *terms, but in light of the preceding negative ones, they *seem *positive), bundle-of-joy, mamma’s little angel, etc. I gave the typical spiel about how overly positive or negative terminology betrays a non-objective attitude, a bias. Then, I asked for medical terminology: *zygote, blastocyst, embryo, fetus *(for the record, few said blastocyst, except nursing students).

Then, with these words in three neat little columns on the board behind me, I told the tragic tale of a student who wrote about abortion for her 10 page research essay, spending **six pages **detailing the different abortion procedures, just to waste space:mad: , without any reasoning of her own. She discussed in graphic detail (I asked for vivid details of course) how the head of the fetus is crushed with forceps, its limbs dismembered, vacuumed up, etc. going into more detail than even many abortion websites do. I remember feeling a bit nauseous as I read (despite already knowing the facts), but thinking “What a strong pro-life essay.” Then, it turned out her thesis was Pro-Choice. I was floored. “This student’s laziness caused her downfall,” I warned my students, “for it was then that *I came to my great ironic discovery that you really cannot argue **for ***abortion by **describing **abortions.” :eek:

Strictly speaking, as an argumentative strategy, it just doesn’t make sense. When arguing for abortions, you’re shooting yourself in the foot if you cast any bright light whatsoever on the very thing you’re advocating. A Pro-Life essay uses words with **connotations **most suited to their cause: child, infant, baby, murder, whereas a Pro-Choice essay must rely on zygote, fetus, medical procedure, vacuum aspiration, and no matter how you spin it, in the end, there is no way to disguise the dismemberment of a human body. Once they recognized that irony, my pro-choice students usually became perturbed and yet the fact is that describing abortions in detail is gruesome; when disguised by terms with “neutral” connotations and non-emotionally charged language, they’re almost spooky. It didn’t always change minds but it threw much light on how arguments can be constructed specifically to deceive, and some arguments must deceive in order to succeed.

On the other thread, I ended it differently, but to gear it to this thread, I will say that Pro-Choice is essentially in keeping with the church’s doctrine of free will. The church teaches us what sin is, and Jesus reconciles us to God through the sacraments. My point in re-telling this story is to demonstrate the very real self-deception involved with abortion. I would not want to be the woman who had an abortion and one day grasps the full gravity of what she has done. That’s what the sacrament of reconciliation is for. But sometimes, in the moment of sin, we close our eyes too tightly.

No one will read this post, of course; it’s too long:(
I read it. Thank you for your LONG post. It brings home what many of us have said about abortion and the “choice” to sin.
 
Forgive me, but I posted this very story on another thread, but it fits in here as well:

I think I can offer a somewhat unique perspective. Quite serendipitously, I came to an ironic discovery about the abortion issue, having been a writing teacher.

I taught college level writing courses for six years, mostly freshman composition classes, at public colleges where proselytizing for any religion is illegal. For argument essays, students wanted to tackle “hot button” topics like capital punishment, gun control, stem-cell research, abortion, topics so overplayed in the media that for a writing teacher they have become clichés; as well, they’re highly prone to plagiarism as pirated essays of this kind abound on the Internet. The status quo arguments have little power to persuade anymore; many students were numb, or merely parroting back what they’d heard without reasoning it out for themselves. Despite the fact that these are important issues, I took the position of “outlawing” them, my excuse being that students rarely bring anything “new” to the table, which predictably caused rebellion. I’d say, “Let’s take abortion for example.” I began by reviewing **connotation **(the emotional associations we have with words) and **denotation **(their dictionary definitions). I asked students to call out words with “negative” connotations about children: rug-rat, ankle-biter, condom mishap (not making that one up), snot-nosed brat, etc. Then I asked for overall “positive” connotations about children: *child, infant, toddler, baby *(which are really *neutral *terms, but in light of the preceding negative ones, they *seem *positive), bundle-of-joy, mamma’s little angel, etc. I gave the typical spiel about how overly positive or negative terminology betrays a non-objective attitude, a bias. Then, I asked for medical terminology: *zygote, blastocyst, embryo, fetus *(for the record, few said blastocyst, except nursing students).

Then, with these words in three neat little columns on the board behind me, I told the tragic tale of a student who wrote about abortion for her 10 page research essay, spending **six pages **detailing the different abortion procedures, just to waste space:mad: , without any reasoning of her own. She discussed in graphic detail (I asked for vivid details of course) how the head of the fetus is crushed with forceps, its limbs dismembered, vacuumed up, etc. going into more detail than even many abortion websites do. I remember feeling a bit nauseous as I read (despite already knowing the facts), but thinking “What a strong pro-life essay.” Then, it turned out her thesis was Pro-Choice. I was floored. “This student’s laziness caused her downfall,” I warned my students, “for it was then that *I came to my great ironic discovery that you really cannot argue **for ***abortion by **describing **abortions.” :eek:

Strictly speaking, as an argumentative strategy, it just doesn’t make sense. When arguing for abortions, you’re shooting yourself in the foot if you cast any bright light whatsoever on the very thing you’re advocating. A Pro-Life essay uses words with **connotations **most suited to their cause: child, infant, baby, murder, whereas a Pro-Choice essay must rely on zygote, fetus, medical procedure, vacuum aspiration, and no matter how you spin it, in the end, there is no way to disguise the dismemberment of a human body. Once they recognized that irony, my pro-choice students usually became perturbed and yet the fact is that describing abortions in detail is gruesome; when disguised by terms with “neutral” connotations and non-emotionally charged language, they’re almost spooky. It didn’t always change minds but it threw much light on how arguments can be constructed specifically to deceive, and some arguments must deceive in order to succeed.

On the other thread, I ended it differently, but to gear it to this thread, I will say that Pro-Choice is essentially in keeping with the church’s doctrine of free will. The church teaches us what sin is, and Jesus reconciles us to God through the sacraments. My point in re-telling this story is to demonstrate the very real self-deception involved with abortion. I would not want to be the woman who had an abortion and one day grasps the full gravity of what she has done. That’s what the sacrament of reconciliation is for. But sometimes, in the moment of sin, we close our eyes too tightly.

No one will read this post, of course; it’s too long:(
Actually, I read it as well.

This is why there are a few of us on here who are willing to speak up directly and loudly…I for one, do not want to worry about semantics, when the life of another and the souls of several are at stake.

When one attempts to stop a woman from aborting, you are not only trying to save the child, you are trying to save the women from the very grevious sin…in addition, the souls of the abortionist and all who assist and support the procedure.

Hence, why I am all in favor of speaking up and not “mincing” words…I prefer to speak the Truth because it is only with the Truth that others may wake up and see the light.
 
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