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(I have to go now, so this will be quick)I have been asked in the past to sign morality agreements and I have done so wholeheartedly. I am not objecting to them. I am objecting to only requiring openly gay people to sign them.
I think that there has been a drowning out of Church teaching, but I don’t believe it was malicious in any manner. We live in a Protestant country, one in which self-exploration is encouraged. So someone who is gay or lesbian growing up in this country is going to experience their attractions as a leading example for “how things should be.” And considering the gay rights movement was started in response to police brutality (Stonewall, etc.), it has merely morphed into a movement for gays who want to be treated like straight people. They are capable of coupling with members of the same sex with the same love as heterosexuals do with their opposite sex partners, and so they want to be able to have the same civil life as heterosexuals. That is where the push for SSM came from. People look at this so much from a Catholic perspective, but in reality, the US is not Catholic at all and never has been (in fact, Catholics were persecuted for quite a large portion of the country’s history). We need to look at it from a Protestant perspective, where marriage isn’t Sacramental (with a few exceptions). It’s just an actuarial institution designed to stabilize families and provide for lower societal health costs and greater familial strength. Under this logic, SSM is logical.
So when interacting with the LGBT community, one needs to understand that their support for SSM, etc. has nothing to do with a dislike for the Church. We need to stop assuming people have malicious intent. They just yearn for partnership. Harmful language reinforces assumptions of malicious intent (and also presents an aura of condescension, rightfully or not). Consider this when you deal with LGBT people, please.
American liberal Protestantism is, pardon me, a bastardization of classic Protestantism, which is based on Christian doctrine. You are mischaracterizing the Protestants here wildly. A Southern Baptist’s head would be spinning. Martin Luther would breathe fire - ask a Missouri Synod member. The culprit is secularism/Enlightenment, etc., which railroaded over Protestantism and is now trying to do the same thing to Catholicism (quite effectively is some areas - ask Cordelione).
I think support for SSM may well be based on a need for companionship. As you know, many straight people support it for just that reason. My point is that it is contrary to the truth of the Gospel. That is what I live by and expound, to all, equally. As sensitively as possible of course!
I think it is entirely reasonable to ask openly gay people to sign this statement! I am perplexed at the resistance - at least from those claiming to adhere to the Catholic faith. Makes no sense.