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He is already baptized. Is your pastor requesting that you have him conditionally baptized for some reason? I’m assuming you told the parish when you baptized him yourself, so that they could record that.Does that mean that the classes required that you have to schedule that are hard to find time for are actually against Church teaching?
The pastor is required by law to try and see to proper formation before the baptism. Classes with groups of parents seem to be the way many parishes do this. Our parish has the deacon do all this. See section two here:
That is not to say that there is no detail in your experiences that is in violation. Just, in general, classes of families appear to be okay.Can. 851 The celebration of baptism must be prepared properly; consequently:
1/ an adult who intends to receive baptism is to be admitted to the catechumenate and is to be led insofar as possible through the various stages to sacramental initiation, according to the order of initiation adapted by the conference of bishops and the special norms issued by it;
2/ the parents of an infant to be baptized and those who are to undertake the function of sponsor are to be instructed properly on the meaning of this sacrament and the obligations attached to it. The pastor personally or through others is to take care that the parents are properly instructed through both pastoral advice and common prayer, bringing several families together and, where possible, visiting them.
