The same could probably be said of most Christians, even most Catholics with a need to evangelize, as you do. After all, Muslims are simply trying to do the same basic things; evangelize, teach, apologize. Would you be open to them as much as you want them to be open to you? If they represented Islam as religion that was indeed acceptable in its moral teaching, its practise, its formation of character, would it be any less an option for a thinking spiritual person? Could you listen and accept what an Imam says about the Qu’ran, as much as you would like any Muslim to sit and listen to your parish priest and their relevant understanding of what it means to be Christian, believe the Bible and the Church?
Simply because you think you know what it is to be Christian, you don’t necessarily have the right to put it on the table as the only spiritual alternative. If anything, as a Catholic, I find that spirituality is not limited to Christians; in fact, we often betray what Jesus and the apostles taught. We’ve felt the need to impose our beliefs in a way that is completely at odds with Jesus’s teaching. We wiped out entire peoples in the name of Christ, made them slaves, brought disease and death, all in the name of Christ. At least, when the Muslims began to colonize and do battle in Arabia, North Africa, Spain, India, they understood the need to leave the indigenous peoples in place. They brought superior culture and learning with them; things Christians rejected as witchcraft and alchemy, but today form the basis of physics, geometry, literature, mathematics, architecture. Jews who were ghettoized and murdered under Christian law, were safe in Muslim controlled lands. It’s when Europeans begin to encroach and assume control as colonial powers, that Jews and other peoples become fare game.
Be careful what you say about Muslims, Christians, the Qu’ran, the Bible, and who is right and who is wrong. Both have valid points; I often hear that Christians are not terrorists–not now. But they certainly terrorized peoples for hundreds of years. What you see and hear on the news now is merely the backlash.