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LucyK
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If a marriage is unconsummated, can’t it still be legally invalid?I fear this is a lost battle.
At one time, and for most of the civilization, marriage meant something socially and legally, other than a way to receive government benefits. A woman needed to be married to be honorable. A bastard child couldn’t inherit, and was of lesser social standing. A marriage that was not consumated was invalid. A husband could sue for alienation of affections. The institution was focused on an ordered view of family, procreation, and sex.
It is certainly true that the loosening of these social structures had great benefits. But it has left no argument FOR civil marriage, because civil marriage just doesn’t really have a function anymore. Unwed mothers are no big deal. There is little social consequence to not being married. Property is divided in common law relationships just as in marriages.
When the proponents of traditional marriage are challenged to come up with a defining characteristic of marriage that excludes gay couples, it has become an impossible task, because there are no defining characteristics of marriage anymore. It is just a choice of no consequence, other than to the couple involved.
Perhaps the right strategy is to start to oppose the concept of civil marriage. Make marriage exclusively a religious institution, and give government and healthcare benefits to anyone who live under one roof.