Perhaps that because the non-profit code does not, in fact, prohibit non-profits from lobbying and/or political activities as long as they are directed at issues and not individual candidates.
While it may be “just a matter of time,” I doubt it will be within the next two decades. Over half the states have constitutional provisions for one man/one woman only marriage. A few states might flip in the next few years but other states are becoming more socially conservative rather than less. And all those states aren’t “overwhelmingly polulated by evangelicals”.
If “you” means the Catholic Church as a religious organization, than you are (currently) right, the Church doesn’t have to recognize same-sex marriages. But the “you” here isn’t the Catholic Church; it’s all the individuals and groups that comprise the Church. Just a few reasons “we” should care:
- Restrictions on how charitable groups within the Church can minister to the public. (already happening i.e. Catholic Charities)
- Restrictions on what can and cannot be taught in Catholic schools.
- Forced recognition of many types of “alternate” family structures being forced on public school children, their parents and school employees.
- Restriction on speech, limiting or harrassing clergy and lay leaders from teaching what the Church teaches in matters of faith and morals.
- Losing identity as mothers and fathers, socially and legally. (already happening in some states where birth certificates no longer list “mother” and “father” but simply “parents”)
- Restriction of legitimate employment opportunities for those who disagree with same-sex “marriage”.
Non sequitur. As has been pointed out, the Church only considers marriages invalid if one of the parties is Catholic and they marry outside the Church. Most marriages, where the parties are free to marry, are considered valid by the Church.