If you are finding communication difficult, you could well look to the adage “it takes two”.
Ok, show me where I said it was difficult to communicate.
I said that a number of Catholics on this thread parallel and quality the attacks of anti-Catholics when they attack the CoJCoLDS. The communication is quite clear to me.
I have done the same as you, on a mormon apologetic board, that is, kept the fact that I was a former mormon from being known, for the very reason you portray here.
The fact that I am/was a former Catholic as I sought to learn more about Catholicism was not particularly important. I was convinced that I did not know things about the Catholic Church that were relevant to me determining if I should return to the Catholic Church. It was ignorance that I was attempting to correct.
Also, while I have never been merely a former Catholic on any message board, it has always been my perception that being a LDS was far more likely to incite unhelpful comments than being a former Catholic.
You HATE former mormons. And try to blame those you hate for that hate. It is in your very culture, that label apostate, is thrown around as both the worse fear and the highest of insults. So don’t come around here with your fear and hate and try to tell us it is our fault.
I am quite certain that I do not hate, HATE, or … former Mormons.
I am quite certain that I blame folks for offering anti-Mormon arguments that I think are fallacious or worse and this has little to do with there previous religious affiliation.
It is only rarely that I feel that I am hated, but I am wondering if you are trying to tell me that I should feel hate from you.
Generally, I assume folks are misinformed and lazy when they attack my faith in ways that I think are inappropriate. In truth, I think the same about folks who attack Catholicism in ways that I think are inappropriate.
It is in your very culture, that label apostate, is thrown around as both the worse fear and the highest of insults. So don’t come around here with your fear and hate and try to tell us it is our fault.
This, has a small amount of truth to it by my observation, which is more than I would like to be the case. It is very overblown in its claimed effect. It is my opinion that seldom is the apostate to continued member relationship solely strained by one or the other side. I of course have little experience except as a former Catholic.
My father confided in my that he was pleasantly surprised that I did not cut-off our relationship when I became a LDS like some of his Catholic friends said would happen. Again, I suspect there is something that happens, but I suspect it is overblown.
Finally, I do believe that there was some lack of communication that took place between you and me. It was my intention to communicate to Thirdnep, but I generally agree that when communication does not happen it is a two-way issue. I hope I have corrected some of your misperceptions about me and my post to thirdnep.
Charity, TOm