Hi Becka,
I was raised with protestant beliefs, and am now learning about Catholicism.
I also had difficulties and doubts (regarding Mary and the Saints) which were similar to those you’ve expressed on this thread.
My understanding is this (and Catholics, please correct me if I’m wrong):
When we pray to Mary and the Saints, we’re asking them to pray for us … just as I might tell you about a problem that I’m having, and then ask you to pray about this problem for me. Asking you to pray for me doesn’t take away any glory from God
I noticed that the topic of the Immaculate Conception was raised on this thread, also … that one was another sticking point for me, until I read this wonderful piece from Catholic Answers (excerpt below):
catholic.com/library/Immaculate_Conception_and_Assum.asp
*"Fundamentalists’ chief reason for objecting to the Immaculate Conception and Mary’s consequent sinlessness is that we are told that “all have sinned” (Rom. 3:23). Besides, they say, Mary said her “spirit rejoices in God my Savior” (Luke 1:47), and only a sinner needs a Savior.
Let’s take the second citation first. Mary, too, required a Savior. Like all other descendants of Adam, she was subject to the necessity of contracting original sin. But by a special intervention of God, undertaken at the instant she was conceived, she was preserved from the stain of original sin and its consequences. She was therefore redeemed by the grace of Christ, but in a special way—by anticipation.
Consider an analogy: Suppose a man falls into a deep pit, and someone reaches down to pull him out. The man has been “saved” from the pit. Now imagine a woman walking along, and she too is about to topple into the pit, but at the very moment that she is to fall in, someone holds her back and prevents her. She too has been saved from the pit, but in an even better way: She was not simply taken out of the pit, she was prevented from getting stained by the mud in the first place. This is the illustration Christians have used for a thousand years to explain how Mary was saved by Christ. By receiving Christ’s grace at her conception, she had his grace applied to her before she was able to become mired in original sin and its stain.
The Catechism of the Catholic Church states that she was “redeemed in a more exalted fashion, by reason of the merits of her Son” (CCC 492).
She has more reason to call God her Savior than we do, because he saved her in an even more glorious manner!"*
Isn’t that wonderful? The above is just an excerpt, and it’s well worth reading the entire piece at the link above.