Erick_Ybarra in Christ,
In an earlier post you mentioned that Peter had no idea of succession to his office. Could you prove that assertion?
Your concerns about Mary are IMHO exaggerated by whatever your experience has been versus the reality of Catholic teaching. I have never met a non-Catholic Christian that refused to ask his fellow Christians for prayers on his behalf. Moreover, I’ve never met a non-Catholic Christian that refuses to extoll the virtues of other Christians that they hold in respect and high esteem. Moreover, the level of respect and high esteem that they have for others varies greatly depending upon how much they happen to be impressed by the different individuals that they respect. Their level of love for their fellow Christians also varies depending upon how closely acquainted they are. I could go on with this point, but I think that you’re getting the idea.
Christians mediate and intercede for one another through praying for one another. All of that is good and beneficial, but it is all dependent upon and subordinate to the complete work of Christ and the grace that flows from the Lord. Mary and the saints make up part of the great cloud of witnesses that surround us in heaven as described in Hebrews 12. Moreover, Hebrews 12:22-24 goes on to say this:
But you have come to Mount Zion and to the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to innumerable angels in festal gathering, and to the assembly of the first-born who are enrolled in heaven, and to a judge who is God of all, and to the spirits of just men made perfect, and to Jesus, the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled blood that speaks more graciously than the blood of Abel.
That passage is telling us that as Christians we have come to the place where the entire assembly of heaven, including the souls of just men made perfect, are gathered with Jesus the mediator of the new covenant. We have not come just to Jesus alone. We are now part of the body of Christ which includes the saints in heaven. We are all one body in Christ. The saints in heaven are the souls of the just made perfect. James 5:16 tells us something important about the just. He says:
The prayer of a just man has great power in its effects.
Since we appreciate and understand the power of intercessory prayer by our fellow Christians, surely we should see that the power of intercessory prayer by the souls of just men “made perfect” will be of greater effect and consequence. Can Mary and the saints help in our salvation? They surely can if the prayers of our fellow Christians can have an effect on a person’s salvation. None of that, however, means that Mary or any other of God’s creatures is our savior and the Church never teaches anything different on that score. Reverence and veneration do not mean that we elevate Mary or anyone else to a position that even remotely resembles the role of Jesus in our salvation. Moreover, the veneration we do give should be expected and praised.
I see many of my non-Catholic friends get super excited about sports and sports figures. When someone is made a member of the baseball or football halls of fame these people get enormously excited. Moreover, as sports fans they will continue during the course of their lives to study and speak of the exploits of Cobb, Ruth, DiMaggio and others ad infinitum without a second thought. Catholics simply look at Mary and the saints as our heavenly hall of famers, and we thus give them the praise and veneration that is appropriate. If someone goes past the limit of what the Church rightly teaches in this regard, then it is their problem and it is not the fault of the Church. One must listen to and follow what the Church teaches.
God bless.