Don’t know why an ex-Baptist uses air quotes as if I invented it, or why you have so much difficulty understanding such a simple concept.
“We affirm soul competency, the accountability of each person before God. Your family cannot save you. Neither can your church. It comes down to you and God.” -
sbc.net/aboutus/positionstatements.asp
Catholics should follow Church teaching on civil marriage. I’m not a Catholic and there isn’t anything about civil marriage in the NT, so I followed my conscience on the morality. Soul liberty tells me I’m not accountable to you for my decision, but only to myself and God. Now this is all off-topic and I’ve done my best so if you really still can’t understand, ask another Baptist.