The Reformation was mainly about politics, money, and corrupt church leaders. As a soldier, Manny, you of all people should know that you cannot abide corrupt rulers and leadership. Jesus himself protested the powers that be in the Temple amidst corrupt commerce taking place in the Temple.
Today, the Church, Protestant and Catholic alike, has been guilty of covering up sexual abuse cases that church leadership clearly knew about and yet did nothing.
It is a sad consequence that the Reformation rift could not be healed before the damage was done, I agree. The earlier schism of 1054 is also lamentable. There is plenty of blame to be shared.