You are trying to justify actions by comparing it to other terrible acts saying that it just is not us. It is not just the Catholic Church, anyone who commits the atrocities should be held accountable.
What do you think is going on, with them being sued and convicted and going to jail?
It is a fact that most male on male pedophilia is committed by person with a homosexual basis. I have not heard of to many little girls being abused in the Catholic Church.
No little boys were either - all of the Catholic victims were in their late teens and early twenties - we are not talking about anyone under the age of 16, here, in the case of the recent scandal. This is part of why it is so difficult to get convictions in these cases - because it’s not totally clear whether it was consenting sex, or not.
You cannot deny that the Catholic Church hide this and allowed it to continue. It is a matter of public record that the Church hide priest actions, transferred them between churches, and or just ignored the actions. The Church was wrong in their actions and the denial of what happened.
The fault of the Bishops was that they listened to the psychologists who said that these men were “cured,” instead of to their own common sense, which would have been to forbid these men to serve as priests any more. But they
did do everything they knew to do within reason, to try to prevent the problem from recurring.
They didn’t advertise about it for the same reason Protestant churches don’t advertise about it when one of their members of clergy has done something like that - they didn’t want to lose members.
I was involved in a case of a Protestant pastor (happily married) who was sexually abusing disabled people in the hospital, when he went for hospital visits. We didn’t take him to court because none of the victims wanted to testify - they were embarrassed by the whole thing - so we just fired him and sent him on his way. I have no idea where he went, or what he’s doing now.
I guess I’m no different than any of those Bishops, and actually I’m
worse, because I didn’t send that guy for therapy, either, because we just wanted to get rid of him - but I really don’t see what other options we had, under the circumstances - you can’t send someone to jail without a trial, and you can’t have a trial if the witnesses won’t testify. I suppose if we had offered them all kinds of money, they might have testified, but we didn’t have any to give them.
Nobody in our congregation knew anything about the situation - those who wondered about his sudden departure were told that he had personal reasons for needing to leave the city.