You’ve got to be kidding. I have been told I am “not telling the truth” “I don’t believe you, Ginger2” and other such insinuations. And then I am told I am not being called a liar because the word “liar” was not used.
If you claim I am not telling the truth, what am I doing then? I said I was raised Catholic. If I was not raised Catholic, am not not lying by stating I was.
When a Catholic says to me, “I asked for the truth not a lie” how is that not calling me a liar? And if you claim that I myself have said I am a liar and not anyone else…is that taking responsibility for one’s words? Is saying I am “Just not honest” not calling me a liar?
And how is directly calling me “a liar” when I am telling the truth and then not apologizing for it, taking responsibility for your words?
mgrfin;3155546:
sheesh!
Are you saying that calling me a liar, makes me a liar?
I told the truth when I said I was raised Catholic. The truth does not change no matter how many times Catholics deny it.
First of all I want to say that if a person says something like “let’s be honest” doesn’t mean they are calling you a liar. Weeelll - saying that you are not telling the truth is more polite and acceptable and it is for you to prove otherwise.
Going back to the word Liar I wish to say this. My husband is Portuguese and I have lived in a Portuguese ex-Colony for a number of years, learnt the language and the culture and here is something I appreciated very much. In that culture, and I would imagine it would also apply to other Southern Europeans, to call anyone a Liar is the biggest insult and is a word to be avoided at all cost. If my children used that word I would almost put chili on their tongues. So I understand that you are offended and it is not worthy of anyone to call you that.
Having said that, I think that you are being a little hypersensitive to be offended with “I don’t believe you” because remember you are having a discussion and you are arguing from a different point of view and you don’t believe the other person as much as they don’t believe you. Obviously.
I think you are a very nice and sincere person and I am sure Benedictus also feels the same way. You must excuse all of us because we might be all worked up from another thread and then come on this one and haven’t cooled down yet!!! LOL
We are here to learn from one another. I know Benedictus from other threads and she is one person who is really very spiritual and knowledgeable.
So Ginger we can put on the boxing gloves and spar but we don’t need to hurt each other.