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Interestingly enough, I couldn’t find mention of infant baptism in 1Peter 3:21;) But, I did find in Luke 2:22-23, it mentions dedicating of a child to God
Great! Do you have any examples of any infant dedications from the ECFs? From the
10th century? From the 13th?

It would seem that this is your church’s man-made tradition that started rather recently!
 
prmerger: The issue of infant baptism, appears to me anyway, to be a gray area; because of the child’s inability to understand what salvation is! I personally do not know what happens, when a baby dies, before being baptized:confused:What if it is stillborn; then what? What scriptue tells you that the baby is saved? What did Jesus mean, when He said,“This is my blood, which is poured out for the remission of sins.” Did He say that we had to be baptized first? Even Peter said that we had to repent, and turn to God for forgiveness, before we were baptized! And, you have not proven to me that you can lose your salvation:p Did the prodigal son lose his sonship, after he disgraced his father, and returned like a slave? Just because Peter told the believers, that the gift of salvation was available to their children, does not mean that it was automatic! It would be sort of like, if I graduated from college, and the president of the university, said,“the gift of graduation is available to your children”, does not mean that he will just give them a diploma for doing nothing:eek: You can’t put God in a box,and make it seem like anyone who doesn’t see things your way, can’t come intp the box, and therefore, can’t enjoy God! So, in answer to your incessant and arrogant question; I do not believe there is a “mechanism”, by which babies are saved! If I even believed that such a thing existed, I would be claiming to know the mind of God! Still waiting on irrefutable proof, that babies are indeed saved, by baptism! Wasn’t Jesus dedicated back to God in Luke 2:22-23?
 
So, in answer to your incessant and arrogant question; I do not believe there is a “mechanism”, by which babies are saved!
LOL!! The only reason it was “incessant”, 1beleevr, is because you didn’t answer the multiple times I asked! :whistle:

And, I appreciate that you finally did answer (although it was quite clear by your non-response): you don’t know. I appreciate your honesty. Finally.

Well, at least Catholicism provides an answer to the question as to how infants could be saved!
 
prmerger: Well, not really, but I’ll not belabor the poit, because I know how much catholics like to win, and have the last word!😛 And what is the sign, to show that the baby is saved? Is it like a voice from Heaven, or a dove settling on the baby’s shoulders? Arrogance is not a pretty thing:D
 
Did the prodigal son lose his sonship, after he disgraced his father, and returned like a slave?
if the prodigal son would not have humbled himself and returned to his father as a slave then he would of indeed lost his sonship.
point being that you can loose your salvation, and it is all up to you and your free will. if today you declare Jesus as your Lord and Savior, you can still mess up tomorrow. and if you choose not to repent of that mess before you die then all is lost.
 
prmerger: Well, not really, but I’ll not belabor the poit, because I know how much catholics like to win, and have the last word!😛 And what is the sign, to show that the baby is saved? Is it like a voice from Heaven, or a dove settling on the baby’s shoulders? Arrogance is not a pretty thing:D
don’t you think you are the arrogant one here? the sign is the grace of the sacramental baptism. it is a gift from Jesus.
 
chewchoo: Uh-oh, here comes the rocks and glass house metaphor thing again! But what other position would I expect you(a fellow catholic to prmerger) to take? Can’t believe you are not able to see arrogance in her posts? Good thing I am learning to “turn the other cheek!”😃 Bottom line is this; I do not condone, nor condemn infant baptism, merely saying I don’t understand the necessity! The baby has not formed cognitive thinking, so therefore has no concept of what is happening to him/her; other than the water might feel cold!And I don’t believe that pr has sufficiently answered the question:How do you know the baby is saved? Also, no catholic on any thread, has shown me how I can lose my salvation:p I know that I can walk away from my faith; doubting that Christ is the essence of my salvation! I also believe that it is the blood of Christ that washes away sin, and not baptism! If that were true, we would have to get re-baptized on a daily basis!
 
chewchoo: You are right about the prodigal son, and his willingness to humble himself before his father; realizing that he had been wrong! I thank God daily for the humility that He has given me, so that I might not think that I am “all that”. But I stand on my belief that I cannot lose my salvation; if it were true, I would have lost mine years ago! And no sermons about, “well, if you were in the catholic church, you wouldn’t have to worry!” I know quie a few catholics, who if judged by their lifestyles, would have lost their salvation too!
 
Arrogance is not a pretty thing:D
The most arrogant thing in the world is to declare, “I’m going to heaven and I am certain of it, and no matter what I do–even adultery!!–I will still be in God’s good graces.” :bigyikes:
 
prmerger: Well, not really, but I’ll not belabor the poit, because I know how much catholics like to win
What does that even mean? How can you say that about Catholicism? What Magisterial document says we like to win?
And what is the sign, to show that the baby is saved? Is it like a voice from Heaven, or a dove settling on the baby’s shoulders? Arrogance is not a pretty thing:D
The sign is a cleansed soul, a soul that was once deprived of sanctifying grace being re-infused with this grace. Original sin is wiped away–no sign of it! (Although concupiscence remains.)
 
Just wondering, 1beleevr, what sign you received that you were saved when you accepted Christ as your personal Lord and Savior? Was it a voice from Heaven, or a dove settling on your shoulders?
I’m very curious about this! 🙂
 
The most arrogant thing in the world is to declare, “I’m going to heaven and I am certain of it, and no matter what I do–even adultery!!–I will still be in God’s good graces.” :bigyikes:
Just to clarify, 1beleevr, I am not referring to you, specifically, in the above statement. I’m just saying that the OSAS doctrine that believes that someone is assured a place in heaven no matter what deadly sin is commited, is the essence of arrogance.
 
chewchoo: Uh-oh, here comes the rocks and glass house metaphor thing again! But what other position would I expect you(a fellow catholic to prmerger) to take? Can’t believe you are not able to see arrogance in her posts? Good thing I am learning to “turn the other cheek!”😃 Bottom line is this; I do not condone, nor condemn infant baptism, merely saying I don’t understand the necessity! The baby has not formed cognitive thinking, so therefore has no concept of what is happening to him/her; other than the water might feel cold!And I don’t believe that pr has sufficiently answered the question:How do you know the baby is saved? Also, no catholic on any thread, has shown me how I can lose my salvation:p I know that I can walk away from my faith; doubting that Christ is the essence of my salvation! I also believe that it is the blood of Christ that washes away sin, and not baptism! If that were true, we would have to get re-baptized on a daily basis!
catholics don’t ever get baptized more than once, and the catholic church even accepts as valid those baptisms performed in other christian churches provided they baptize with water and in the name of the father and of the son and of the holy spirit BUT… catholics can regularly renew their baptismal promises, in fact we can do that every day!!! and in addition to baptism we have other sacramental graces that help us to pay attention to the state of our soul. we receive Christ in the Eucharist. but we have to be somewhat worthy to receive Him. if we are in a serious state of sin then we must go to confession to receive God’s forgiveness before receiving the Eucharist. yes, we are confessing to a priest, who is persona Christi. believe me, confessing your sins to a priest is a better grace than just turning to God and asking Him for forgiveness, which Catholics can and do do. taking your sins to a priest and saying them out loud and asking for the Lord’s forgiveness and then hearing that they are forgiven is huge. yes, our eternal Father is very forgiving, he will always forgive our sins if we are truly repentant, but there is a certain courage that you need to take your sins to a priest and i think that that enhances the grace of our Lord’s forgiveness that much more.

i am sure you are going to say that all that i have written above isn’t “necessary” to be a good Christian. but think of it this way. Jesus laid his hands on the apostles who in turn have laid their hands on their successors and so on and so on for 2000 years. all of these men are priests in the catholic church. and within those 2000 years many a heresy has been fought and many a doctrine has been disputed and discussed. everything that you have issue with has been discussed within the church already. troubles and all, the Holy Spirit, the advocate, has purified the Catholic Church. it will prevail inspite of its sinful membership and what outsiders say of it. so whether or not YOU think any of what the Catholic Church does is necessary or not is really immaterial, because we have already been there and done that. you may be a lovely Christian in the “mere Christianity” sense, and that is wonderful. but the Catholic Church is more than just mere Christianity. it is Christ’s Church.
 
catholics don’t ever get baptized more than once, and the catholic church even accepts as valid those baptisms performed in other christian churches provided they baptize with water and in the name of the father and of the son and of the holy spirit BUT… catholics can regularly renew their baptismal promises, in fact we can do that every day!!! and in addition to baptism we have other sacramental graces that help us to pay attention to the state of our soul. we receive Christ in the Eucharist. but we have to be somewhat worthy to receive Him. if we are in a serious state of sin then we must go to confession to receive God’s forgiveness before receiving the Eucharist. yes, we are confessing to a priest, who is persona Christi. believe me, confessing your sins to a priest is a better grace than just turning to God and asking Him for forgiveness, which Catholics can and do do. taking your sins to a priest and saying them out loud and asking for the Lord’s forgiveness and then hearing that they are forgiven is huge. yes, our eternal Father is very forgiving, he will always forgive our sins if we are truly repentant, but there is a certain courage that you need to take your sins to a priest and i think that that enhances the grace of our Lord’s forgiveness that much more.

i am sure you are going to say that all that i have written above isn’t “necessary” to be a good Christian. but think of it this way. Jesus laid his hands on the apostles who in turn have laid their hands on their successors and so on and so on for 2000 years. all of these men are priests in the catholic church. and within those 2000 years many a heresy has been fought and many a doctrine has been disputed and discussed. everything that you have issue with has been discussed within the church already. troubles and all, the Holy Spirit, the advocate, has purified the Catholic Church. it will prevail inspite of its sinful membership and what outsiders say of it. so whether or not YOU think any of what the Catholic Church does is necessary or not is really immaterial, because we have already been there and done that. you may be a lovely Christian in the “mere Christianity” sense, and that is wonderful. but the Catholic Church is more than just mere Christianity. it is Christ’s Church.
Indeed!

Not to mention that a “dedication” ceremony is something relatively new, while infant baptisms have been done by the Church since the apostolic age. A clear line of historicity–those who knew Christ and the apostles baptized infants, and those who knew those who knew Christ and the apostles baptized infants, and those who knew those who knew those who knew Christ and the apostles baptized infants and those who knew…etc etc etc:thumbsup:
 
chewchoo: Just felt like expounding on the discussion about the prodigal son. Jesus spoke very often in parables, which today we sometimes call metaphors, or symbols! I was thinking, as I read your post about the prodigal, and wondered; what if you were able to put yourself, and your son(if you had one) into that parable. Let’s say that he did all the things the prodigal did, but returned, void of remorse or humility. Would he lose his sonship? Would you disown him? I believe that this parable is a picture of our relationship with God. How often do we(or have we) turned our backs on God.Does He reject us; does He say,“You made your bed, now lay in it!” Certainly, we must come back to the Lord,with our tail between our legs, hats in hands,humble and ready to admit our disobedience, and ask for forgiveness! Thank goodness we serve a gracious and forgiving God, who does not mark our iniquities!:thumbsup:Everything you said is really good; still sorting out what I agree with, and what I don’t! I applaud your dedication to you religion, and the comfort you feel in confessing. I have never felt the need to confess to anyone other than God. Courage to witness to a priest:confused:Anyway, God is so awesome, and I am so glad that He has grown me through my trials, and tribulations! Even though we don’t always agree, I love ya, my brother in Christ! God bless!
 
chewchoo: Just felt like expounding on the discussion about the prodigal son. Jesus spoke very often in parables, which today we sometimes call metaphors, or symbols! I was thinking, as I read your post about the prodigal, and wondered; what if you were able to put yourself, and your son(if you had one) into that parable. Let’s say that he did all the things the prodigal did, but returned, void of remorse or humility. Would he lose his sonship? Would you disown him? I believe that this parable is a picture of our relationship with God. How often do we(or have we) turned our backs on God.Does He reject us; does He say,“You made your bed, now lay in it!” Certainly, we must come back to the Lord,with our tail between our legs, hats in hands,humble and ready to admit our disobedience, and ask for forgiveness!
Indeed! God will never turn His back on His children…however, we can lose our “sonship”, by simply turning away ourselves. We can reject God’s offer, and we do, every single time we sin.
 
prmerger: Good thing you clarified that statement about adultery; because I know from your rant in earlier posts about non-catholics, and committing adultery in order to get divorced, I mean, who knows what you meant! Sorry to disagree with you about the issue of arrogance, but when you said, in an earlier post:“LOL, catholicism has the process for infant baptism”, to me that “sounded” very arrogant! And I for one(can’t speak for all non-catholics), do not believe, nor promote the idea, that I can run around doing whatever I want, including adultery, if that were my nature, and believe that I was still going to Heaven, regardless! Paul says that “nothing can separate us from the love of God!” Does this mean we can continue sinning, to produce more grace? Of course not! Understanding the nature of God’s unfathomable grace, and mercy, helps us to understand, that one sin does not void your salvation. Don’t get me wrong; I know how much God hates sin, and how it separates us from Him. But, please don’t sell God short, either, and assume that He will always punish us severely for said sin. For us, living through the consequences of the sin, and learning to trust in Him, during these times is "punishment enough. I believe that God, being the perfect parent that He is; disciplines, and corrects, rather than punishes. How about you pr, in regards to the prodigal son; if your son did that, whether he came back in humility or not, would you still love and accept him, as this father did? As our Holy Father does?
 
How about you pr, in regards to the prodigal son; if your son did that, whether he came back in humility or not, would you still love and accept him, as this father did? As our Holy Father does?
Certainly I would accept my son back, with the “joy in heaven over one sinner who repents”!

However, put yourself in the son’s place–not the Father’s. Did he separate himself from the father? Can you “divorce” yourself from the family? Of course you can!

And, I don’t believe God “punishes us severely for said sin” (as you stated). I believe sin is its own punishment in that God does not force heaven on those who refuse it. *We *choose hell because we reject God.

BTW, do you hae any examples in history of infant “dedications” in the, say, 10th century, or the 5th century, or the 13th?

Also, what sign did you receive that you were saved when you accepted Christ as your personal Lord and Savior? Was it a voice from Heaven, or a dove settling on your shoulders? (I’m asking because it seems you assume that there has to be a similar sign when infants are baptized, yet I don’t recall* ever* hearing about a dove settling on any Protestant’s shoulders when they accepted Christ as their personal Lord and Savior.)
 
prmerger: Is the account of Jesus being dedicated to the Lord accurate? How old was He;eight days wasn’t it? Was this ritual not an age old tradition of presenting, or dedicating the baby to the Lord; to show that the child(even yours) belong to God? If it is true, then the practice of dedicating, or presenting a child to the Lord, would predate the apostolic age:p Hey like I said, if baptizing infants is a catholic(and probably a few other religions/denominations) practice, the I say, have at it! But please respect those of us who don’t perform them. Neither side’s babies are any better than the others, and God has the ultimate say on whether someone is saved or not; not man! After reading your post, about what “sign” I had that I as saved, I sat back and tried remembering back 42 years to what that moment was like! I felt feelings that I never had. I cried for the first time, when I hadn’t been injured or spanked. A warmth that I still cannot explain came over me, and I felt the change that was happening in me! Some call it “new believer’s euphoria”, which they say wears off. Trials and tribulations followed, and I wandered away from the Lord, with numerous occasions, where I was involved in situations where I could have been severely injured or killed, but wasn’t. At this stage of my Christian walk, God is revealing Himself in so many ways in my life, opening so many doors of opportunity to serve Him, and to grow me! When I talk about my exploits in His service, some see it as boasting or bragging, propping up myself, at God’s expense. I see it as shouting out to the world about His incredible work in whomever will surrender to His will, and do the work that He has laid before us. I think it’s both good and bad that we disagree, but it doesn’t stop me from loving you, my sister in Christ!
 
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