Dealing with your first paragraph…
Before you and I were born, Christians knew, believed and accepted that Mary remained a virgin throughout her life! Now, we have Christians who say that she wasn’t! I hold with the original Christians and can see in Scriptures that what they passed onto us is corroborated in the pages…if you understood what the passages actually say and mean!
But you argue that she wasn’t! Are you a different Christian than me?! You say my position is wrong! So along with all of Christianity before you were born, WE ARE WRONG?!?! Such obstinance!
It is fine to argue from your vantage and say some blasphemous things about Jesus Christ’s mother…since you do not fully understand the passages of Scriptures. This will grow with further reading and research.
But to continually argue and then say Mary and Joseph were ordinary folk AFTER the Christ was born?!! What you are implying is that God USED Mary as a surrogate mother or cocoon, and then ‘returned’ her to Joseph, WHO IS HER HUSBAND!?
What does that make God?!
Do you think He condones extramarital sex?..outside marriage?..if you have the power?!..with another man’s wife!?! Do you think He takes any woman for His purposes and then ‘discard’ her like cattle??
Do you not see how insulting that is of Him?..His Mother?..Saint Joseph?!..and the Holy Spirit?
Blasphemous and sacrilegious!
With you second paragraph…
You prefer that we be nice to people and let them level insults at The Church, being the body of Christ,… God?!..His Mother?!.. His Holy Family?!
You do not see it, but you are doing the same. You are insulting Our Lord and His family by ‘supposing’ your views into the texts. I would advise you read and study Holy Writ properly to see ‘the insults’ you’re implying…before you even touch the passages of The Wedding in Canaan. The whole world is in that wedding!..and you don’t even see it!
Up there (paragraph 1) you seem to suggest that you’ve cast your pearls before swine. I can live with being taken as ‘swine’ because it isn’t about me! I have to tell you though that they may look like ‘pearls’ to you when you cast them…but from here, they look like spittle and they’re stainning the pavement!
Whether deliberate of out of ignorance, it pains us when people insult Our Lord and His Holy Family! But He commissioned His Church to proclaim The Good News, and our first Pope ‘taught’ us to be charitable with enquirers of our faith!
That is why this thread has lasted this long and CAF is littered with similar threads over and over and over and…
Today is the Feast Day of The Holy Family. May it bring some humility to illuminate matters for us all to see clearly.